why doesn't he like blow jobs??

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  1. lizbebe

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    so the other day i had sex for the first time with my guy ...we made out yada yada ,,, but went i was going to go down he told me no ,,, that he hated giving or receiving which is a turn off for me bc i am very oral . this is the first that i hear that a guy hates getting head,,,so my question is ..

    are u or do u know ppl that hate oral sex ?
    why would a guy hate that ?

    oooo and he likes it only doggie or girl on top ...
     
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    did you get a divorce?
     
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    hmmm.

    well i've known a lot of girls who are uncomfortable with getting oral but i've never really known or heard of a guy not liking getting a blowjob.

    did you ask him?
     
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    yea he just said he didn't ... its like what a waste of a beautifully cock =[
     
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    maybe he's had really bad blowjs in the past? i wouldnt accept that as an answer because there must be a real reason WHY he doesnt like it

    its not a waste though, at least he isnt opposed to any sort of sex
     
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    He may have a problem of getting overstimulated and blow quick. He could have insecurites about his size, figures if you were up close and personal you'd think Viena sausage as opposed to Ball Park Frank. He could just find it gross from a germ point of view. Maybe he was bitten before, ya know once bitten twice shy. He could just be a dumbass..who knows. If you have a real problem with it, I'd move on.

    I personally love it, along with anal, tittie, and vag.
     
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    Orrrrrrrrrrrrr maybe last time a girl bite him!!!!!
     
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    mmmm he is a good size best dick ive seen so far lol ...germs?? eeehh noo dont think so ..blow quick ?? he lasted a good while ..
     
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    he means blow too quickly from a blowjob. that could be too much stimulation for some guys to be able to hold off
     
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    He would need to explain bc oral is my all time fav giving and receiving. Especially giving mmmm yum
     
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    maybe huh ...wat a wierd guy lol or maybe he thinks its low for a girl to do that ...
     
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    Doesn't answer why he does not giving. I had a long term with a girl who didn't give but I still went down everytime bc I love to
     
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    I don't like blowjobs much myself: I prefer sex to be sharing and it seems one-sided to me. Also because of my thickness and length, most of the times it doesn't do anything much to me. But I do like giving oral sex and my wife enjoys receiving it.

    Perhaps you can ask your boyfriend because there are a number of good reasons why he doesn't like blowjobs.
     
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    I actually had a guy (who assumed I liked it THAT rough) Bite my clit. can we say OUCH!

    But *that*never stopped me..:ugh
     
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    This could be too.. I used to know a guy who though that a women doing oral was belittling herself and womankind everywhere. He said it was a huge disgrace and turn off.

    Have you asked him? ( sorry if this was mentioned earlier)
     
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    It could be any number of things, but communication is key. You both need to be willing to talk about these things. Blue and I have had conversations about sex that lasted HOURS and it helps us to know how to get the highest level of pleasure from our sexual experiences posible.
     
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    well the sex is still good ..so his lost ..ummm maybe later on he will tell me ...not going to pressure him lol
     
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    good...he'll figure it out when he's ready.
     
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    Maybe it's not that he doesn't getting but doesn't like giving and figures if he doesn't get he doesn't have to give