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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by JulieMiles, Jan 13, 2011.
Just an opinion question: Why do you think girls have more "toys" than guys?
guys are probably more ashamed of it
Coming from someone who sells sex toys for a living?
Simply because there are more toys directed towards girls then there are guys.
But why is that? It must be that girls are more willing/want toys more
No, not really.
There is more to please with a girl.
bingo COMMON SENSE
girls have more needs more holes to be filled!!!! plain and simple girls need more toys
I think it's for a few reasons, mostly practical:
1. If a man wants to get himself off, a hand will work just fine.
2. Some women like to feel filled (hence, dildos) and some like to have their clits stimulated (hence, vibrators).
3. It's easier to make a penetrating toy, as opposed to one that acts like a sheath.
In short, a guy would want a toy that envelopes (rather than penetrates), and strokes (rather than vibrates). It's simply easier to design toys for women; it's easier to make a toy that penetrates and/or vibrates than to make one with a stroking or sucking action.
Because of this, a hand would probably work better than a toy for a guy, but the same can't always be said when a woman wants to jill off.
Not to mention that something like a "fleshlight" would be a pain to clean afterwards...
That pretty well sums it up. Guys can always do the 5 knuckle shuffle just about anywhere, anytime. Remeber, girls are more complicated. Guys are more visual, that's why more porn is geared towards men.
Ok, dont kick my ass for saying this, but men are simple beasts !!!!!!!!!!!
.....and women are so hopelessly complicated and convoluted that they can hardly figure themselves out.
Close, but I don't know if I'd go quite that far.....Guys are less picky, Hell, I've seen a guy fuck a tree, litterally. He was drunk and stoned, but he did it.
Guys are more discrete about it, easier to please, rather feel good with a partner. My sexual toys are the ones I use on a woman: hands, mouth, penis, and not against using toys on a partner if the toys don't take over and her sexual pleasure benefits. I discovered another toy of mine to excite someone: the imagination! little dirty stories, etc.
saying things that gets a woman in the mood, it makes a difference in my opinion.
Easy answer: Chicks get together for a sex toy party. Can you imagine guys doing that? Never in a million years. Stag films sure, maybe a poker game would break out,toys, no way!
Guys have more "pride." Women are more particular about whom they will sleep with than guys. If a guy is horny he'll drop his standards to get laid. Women are more likely to wait for the right guy, so toys are an acceptable substitute. Even if a guy did use a toy, his pride would make him deny it to his buds. Also women are becoming more demanding and want to be satisfied. They aren't embarassed to go out and buy something to get them off. As a guy I could never do that. And we think we're "tougher" than women......:lol
I will admit I own multiple toys, my SO, 0. I enjoy the usage of toys while she is not into it. I rather enjoy the fact she does not condone the use of dildo's, I don't have to compete with anything
Guys do not have a great need for other toys since we were born with the ultimate one in our hands.
He's right its sort of like "why does a dog lick his balls?"