Why do you love your SO, bf/gf, wife, hubby?

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  1. Thorn

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    Why do you love him or her? In general or something nice they did recently.
     
  2. loveit247

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    Because he makes me feel that all is right with the world. He is special to me and makes me feel safe and warm and cared for. He may have been a shit of late but that makes me realize that he is also human and I have not been a breeze either.

    I love him cos he is my boy, that is why.
     
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    I love my hubby because he makes me feel special and does everything for me. Without him I dont feel whole; while he was gone with the military for 2 years I just felt so alone. As corny as it sounds he really does complete me. He doesnt have to say anything and just his kiss says everything I want to hear. He makes sure I'm safe and ok before he worries about himself. He makes me a better person and would give me the world if he could. He's funny, down to earth and captivating. Even tho we are complete opposites we fit together perfectly.
     
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    Because the question is way to complicated to effectively answer without writing a novel of epic proportions, I'll sum it up with one line:


    She completes me.​
     
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    Aaaahh guys.....

    I love the fact that he gives me freedom to be me...we have grown not to over depend on each other...before I depended on a man to make me whole...which was becoming unhealthy and claustrophic for him.

    He is patient, tolerant and totally loyal...he never cheated on me in the 18 years we have been together...and I know he wouldnt..he would tell me if he wanted another..as I would him.

    He has never lied to me...

    This is a totally OPEN relationship...he has taught me to be this way.

    He is arty, a brilliant artist and musician, huge talent.

    He is a great father

    But please dont ask me what I dont like about him, or me him, because I would be here all day...we are opposites...yin and yang...

    lol

    Its a challenge...there is positive and negative, there is nothing trivial about this relationship, it is as profound as it is healing..he has taken me to places in myself which I dared not go to before we met..

    There is love. .. .
     
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    O_O I'd make this too long to read ;x So I better just say I Love him and what's not to Love about him!? He's too great. Honestly, too good for me! I swear it. XD I'm a lucky girl!
     
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    Just one reason..
    Because he's a wonderful daddy to the beautiful kiddies we have together! :)
     
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    Because she is wonderful, sweet, kind, joyful, intelligent sexy, hysterical... the calming yin to my raging yang... because she is perfection incarnate:)
     
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    Because he feels the same way about music that I do. If I didn't have him, I wouldn't have anyone to go to shows with!
     
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    There are too many reasons to post it all here......all I know is that I could exist without him - I just wouldn't want to.
     
  11. HerHubby

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    I feel the same way about my wife as heelfetish and pirouette feel about their spouses and would have to say the same things. My wife stood by my side in a church before people attending, kindly married me and even took my last name when nobody else would have done that. She has been a wonderful wife. Yes, we haven't and don't make love as often as I would have liked or would like, however, when we do, it is awesome! She is awesome!
    Deeper than the Holler By Randy Travis

    Well, I've heard those city singers singin' 'bout how they can love,
    Deeper than the oceans, higher than the stars above.
    Well, I come from the country, and I know I ain't seen it all.
    But I heard that ocean's salty, and the stars, they sometimes fall.
    And that would not do justice to the way I feel for you.
    So I had to sing this song about all the things I knew.

    My love is deeper than the holler.
    Stronger than the river.
    Higher than the pine trees growin' tall upon the hill.
    My love is purer than the snowflakes,
    That fall in late December.
    And honest as a Robin on a springtime window sill.
    And longer than the song of a whippoorwill.

    From the back roads to the Broadway shows with a million miles between,
    There's at least a million love songs that people love to sing.
    And every one is different, and every one's the same.
    And this is just another way of sayin' the same thing.

    My love is deeper than the holler.
    Stronger than the river.
    Higher than the pine trees growin' tall upon the hill.
    My love is purer than the snowflakes,
    That fall in late December.
    And honest as a Robin on a spring-time window sill.
    And longer than the song of a whippoorwill.

    My love is deeper than the holler.
    Stronger than the river.
    Higher than the pine trees growin' tall upon the hill.
    My love is purer than the snowflakes,
    That fall in late December.
    And honest as a Robin on a spring-time window sill.
    And longer than the song of a whippoorwill.
    A Whippoorwill...
    Copyright © 2006 The Filaments.
     
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    Forever and Ever, Amen By Randy Travis

    You may think that I'm talking foolish
    You've heard that I'm wild and I'm free
    You may wonder how I can promise you now
    This love that I feel for you always will be.

    Your not just time that I'm killing
    I'm no longer one of those guys
    As sure as I live this love that I give
    Is gonna be yours until the day that I die, oh baby.

    Chorus:
    I'm gonna love you forever, forever and ever, amen
    As long as old men sit and talk about the weather
    As long as old women sit and talk about old men
    If you wonder how long I'll be faithful
    I'll be happy to tell you again.
    I'm gonna love you, forever and ever,
    Forever and ever, amen.

    --- Instrumental ---

    They say that time takes it's toll on the body
    Makes the young girls brown hair turn gray
    But honey, I dont care, I ain't in love with your hair
    And if it all fell out, well, I'd love you anyway.

    They say time can play tricks on a memory
    Make people forget things they knew
    But it's easy to see, it's happenin' to me
    I've already forgotten every woman but you, oh darlin'.

    Chorus:
    I'm gonna love you forever, forever and ever, amen
    As long as old men sit and talk about the weather
    As long as old women sit and talk about old men
    If you wonder how long I'll be faithful
    Just listen to how this song ends,
    I'm gonna love you, forever and ever,
    Forever and ever, amen.

    I'm gonna love you forever and ever, forever and ever,
    Forever and ever, forever and ever, amen...
    Copyright © 2006 The Filaments.
     
  13. NaughtyKnickers

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    HH, your posts have coerced me into admitting to being a Randy Travis fan! :lol

    Those songs are both beautiful and awesome. Music so often puts into words things that are tough to otherwise express.

    Thanks for sharing! :)
     
  14. Bella

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    I love the way we finish each other's sentences.

    I love the way I know he'll never give up on me.

    I love the fact that I wouldn't ever give up on him.

    I love the way he looks at me.

    I love how beautiful his eyes are.

    I love the way I can't imagine a day without him in my life.

    I love the way we cuddle and watch sunsets together.

    I love the way we sometimes stay up all night and just talk, and then watch the sunrise together.

    I love how I know he'll always be there when I need him to be.

    I love the fact that I will always be there for him too.

    I love how when I dream of my life partner, the only person that I can see is him.

    I love how complete I feel when I am with him.

    I love how our bodies just fit together.

    I love the way he makes me laugh.

    I love the way he laughs.

    I love the way he won't compromise himself when we are together.

    I love the way he won't let me compromise myself.

    I love his thoughtfulness.

    I love his tenderness.

    I love his ability to speak without saying a single word.

    I love the way we glance at each other across the room and know what each other is thinking.

    I love the way, how even though we may be miles apart I still feel like he is right here with me.

    I love the way he surprises me with the perfect gifts that show he pays attention to me.

    I love the way he'll watch a sporting game with me even though he may not like my team.

    I love the way he treats my friends.

    I love his love for the things that interest me.

    I love the way he lets me live my life freely without jealousy.

    I love how he demands respect but isn’t controlling.

    I love how I would do anything in this world to make him happy.

    I love how he would do anything in this world to make me happy.

    I love the way his voice sounds over the phone.

    I love the way his voice sounds when he whispers sweet nothings in my ear.

    I love the completeness and oneness I feel when we make love.

    I love his sensuality.

    I love how our romance feels like the perfect romance movie.

    I love how he is my soul mate.

    I love the way he handles troubled times.

    I love the way he respects me.

    I love the way he protects and defends me.

    I love how he feels when we cuddle.

    I love the softness of his lips against mine.

    I love the softness of his lips against my body.

    I love feeling his hands touch me when we make love.

    I love laying in bed at night talking about nothing.

    I love waking up to find we've been cuddling together all night.

    I love the surprises he leaves for me.

    I love his intelligence.

    I love his ingenuity.

    I love his ability to make friends where ever we go.

    I love his love for life.

    I love his passion for his hobbies and interests.

    I love how every time I look at him, he takes my breath away.

    I love how I thank God everyday for bringing someone as wonderful as him into my life.

    I love the special moments that we shared that will remain my fondest memories of him and I.

    I love spending the holidays with the one person I love the most.

    I love how my heart skips a beat whenever he walks into the room.

    I love how he loves me.

    I love how I love him.

    I love the ways he chooses to show his affection for me.

    I love the way he inspires me to be more than I am.

    I love the way he sparks my creativity and imagination.

    I love the way he makes me feel like anything is possible as long as I'm with him.

    I love his sense of humor.

    I love the way he makes me feel like royalty.

    I love the way he dresses.

    I love him just the way he is.

    I love his spontaneity.

    I love his personality.

    I love our life together.

    I love how if I died right now, I would die happy because I would know that I had found my one true love.

    I love the fact that we will grow old together.

    I love his way with words.

    I love the way he looks when he is sleeping.

    I love the way he wakes up next to me in the morning.

    I love his willingness to share everything and most especially his heart with me.

    I love his strength and character.

    I love taking showers together.

    I love the way he leaves me love notes to find whenever he’s gone.

    I love the way he treats me.

    I love the way he takes care of us.

    I love his cooking.

    I love the way he takes the time to thank me for doing every day things.

    I love the way he shows his affection when we are around friends and/or family.

    I love the way he is not scared to show his affection when we are in public.

    I love his confidence.

    I love his ability to make me feel better when times are tough.

    I love the way we make up after a fight.

    I love the way he supports me when I'm off track.

    I love the way he takes the time to show me how much he truly loves me.

    I love his body.

    I love his openness to try new things.

    I love his ability to talk things through.

    I love his courage.

    I love his greatness.

    I love the fact that he wants to be with me and only me.

    I love how I am and feel when I am with him!

    I love him for him & he loves me for me!

    ~Bella

     
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    that beautiful post of yours just made me cry bella..

    i miss my loved one more than anything on the planet.. she really treated me badly, but i'll forgive anything just to look into those eyes.. just to kiss those softest lips i ever came across..

    i miss my baby..
     
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    I didn't mean to make you :cry!!
    I am so sorry! :(
    I just wanted everyone to know how I felt about my baby! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    no need to be sorry baby-bella!!!

    you know, i feel this way for long.. and i really try to get over and done with it. but i simply cant.. and probably never will!

    but there is one thing left for me: at least i have felt real love too, mutual at times. not a lot of people have i suppose, you did, so just be happy! i am happy for you too and everyone else that can say this about themselves..

    i am fine, i just miss it.. i miss her.

    thanks for sharing, i think its beautiful!!!
     
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    Hugz for you doberman! :)
    ~Bella
     
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    Wow Bella

    How long have you guys been together?

    doberman...:(
     
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    She is the only person-other than my kids-that makes me smile and laugh as though I was a teenager again. She is down to earth, logical, funny, thoughtful, caring, sweet and sexy as all hell.

    She turns me on the most when we are just holding eachother and she looks deep into my eye and smiles her devlish grin :D

    I love her because I am destined to do so.