[Ask a Girl] Why do women prefer lesbian porn?

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  1. CosmicEye

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    So a lot of women have said they only really watch girl on girl porn. A lot of times they also say that watching men is nasty or unattractive to them. Why is that? I would figure a girl would like to watch a movie with a chick getting pentrated deep, imagining themselves in that position.
     
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    I firmly believe its because a woman's body is much nicer to look at
     
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    It may be because the focus on most porn is just the action whereas many women like a little storyline too.

    But one problem with porn filmed for men is the camera's point of view. The scenes are filmed with the idea that a man will be imagining himself in the place of the male lead so the focus is on what the girl is doing to him or what he is doing to the girl, all from the male lead's perspective and visual points. If the scene is to be interesting to women, we need to see things filmed from the female lead's point of view so that the camera follows what we would see if we were the girl in the movie.

    As for watching m/m porn, I guess that's just one of those weird things. Women are feminine. Two women together is super-feminine. Men are masculine. Two men together does not seem more masculine. If anything, it has the opposite effect. I don't know why that is though...

    P.S. I'm not interested in watching f/f porn. It can be m/f/f but I need a man in the story somewhere to make it interesting to me!
     
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    It seems gay. Not that there is anything wrong with that :phat.

    But seriously, you're right. I think heterosexual men very often are a bit too competitive to really enjoy "cuddling" with each other. It seems awkward. Most of us don't enjoy the physical touch of other men much. Women can also be competitive of course, but when girls really like each other then hugging and perhaps kissing seem to come a bit more naturally. Correct me if I am wrong here. :eyes
     
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    Yes, the storyline is important. May be very small... 2-3 minutes is also fine for me , but it should not just start with action.

    And most m/f porns are made keeping in mind the male pleasure. So, this may be the reason. I personally do not watch f/f porns, but try to find m/f porns where the movie is targeted for female pleasure and not male. I love to see men going down on women and pleasuring them orally. Or the females taking lead roles to use the male faces and tongue for their own pleasure.

    For me: m/f/f or m/m/f porn will also be fine if the storyline is to pleasing the female(s) orally by male(s).

    Penetration does not excite me much.
     
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    That's a good point Flame, I never thought of that before. So you would like to see the camera behind the girl as she's laying down on her back getting licked or pen'd by the man, or woman. That's kinda hot, I'd like to see that too.
     
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    I'm actually much more interested in what's going on in the mind than seeing close ups of genitals! But yes, it would be interesting to watch a porn movie where the camera followed what the girl is seeing when she's with the guy.

    And close ups are another reason most porn movies are not sexy! (To me, at least.) The whole body is such a part of sex. A close up of one piece going in and out of another piece just doesn't tell the whole story! I want to see the expression on their faces (and not just exaggerated pleasure); I want to see the breathing, the trembling; I want to see into their eyes as they experience everything; I want to really feel as though I am that girl and in order to do that I need a bit more than a detailed view of her bikini wax.

    I really love your signature, by the way!
     
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    Same for me.:)
     
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    If the penis isnt attached to someone I love, I dont want to look at it.also, women know what women want...its only natural to imagine someone who can feel the same pleasure pleasuring you
     
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    I agree 100% flame. I also have to see body movements and facial expressions, and none of that fake shit. Watching real pleasurable sex makes the biggest difference.

    ^ I can agree with that statement too

    Speaking of girl on girl, I definantly just jacked to that lol. Ahhh much better, goodnight.
     
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    Quite often f/f pr0n is just as brainless as m/f pr0n is. From what little I have seen- I find that a lot of m/m pr0n, since it is directed toward homo/bisexual males, seems to be more passionate and not just the standard "bump and grind" that normal porn is accustomed to.
     
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    Hehe, did you sleep well? I need a good image to take to bed with me. Any ideas?
     
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    grrrl

    I surer did! Heres a quick pic to think about. (not sure how to copy and paste from an iPad:p)
     
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    Nice! I got a little clit hit from that! Women's bodies can definitely be more lovely to look at than mens...
     
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    Lol you don't have to remind me of that!
     
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    I don't watch much porn but when I do I prefer m/m porn although I'm a striaght girl. I think it's because I can kind of imagine myself as the submissive male and they're two men instead of one! And I also agree with Essene that there's more passion in in m/m porn. I think the male body is beautiful as I'm a girl who prefers manly men to feminine men. I get nothing from girl on girl action though.
     
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    i never watch lesbian porn i prefer group 3somes 2 guys 1 girl type thing i never watch just girls
     
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    I much prefer some type of story line as well and would enjoy porn more if it wasn't so much "all about the cock" as it seems to be with most. IMO. :eyes
     
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    Wow, I'm a straight male and we are EXACT OPPOSITES. I like g/g porn for the same reasons you like m/m, except substitute girl for male. Also, I think if I were a girl, I'd be a lesbian.
     
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    I like porn where it's not so choreographed. I like real sex not something that people are just doing for money. I like m/f, f/f, not too much into m/m unless it's just jerking and oral.