I'm not trying to be facetious here, but something I am starting to notice... I don't generally 'bottom' all that often (bottoming is when a guy takes it up the bum) but I have done it more than a dozen times with a few guys variable in size. I find that the guys with the longer ones (7" or more) tend to make it feel better than a guy with a shorter one. Some of my X's were between 8 to 10 inches and although it was initially uncomfortable, I slowly would acclimate to it. The other night I bottomed for a guy who was relatively short and thick. It was so uncomfortable for me to take it because it seemed to only be 'massaging' the outer area of my anus rather than my prostate. On top of that, it seems like it would continually slip out and have to be put back in thus making it hurt more. I was just trying to figure out if it's just me are others have experienced the same?