why do men love handjobs so much?

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  1. redford2

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    I mean they just LOVE their balls being caressed or touched or penis being caressed or felt and of course mouth action but that usually comes later. I have seen masculine 'alpha' type men broke down in just minutes of just teasing their penis with my sultry gentle feminine hands and they end up squirming mega- horny masses of puddy. Its pretty hot but why do men get THIS crazy? I have had boyfriends and they have ALL responded the same to this type of thing. So why?
     
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    It's probably for the same reason women like their pussies being played with Redford ;)
     
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    Asking that is like asking why we rub our clits when masturbating.

    It feels good.
     
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    Of course we do. It is a precurser to sexual activity, part of the play which causes arousal and an erection in order to be ready for full sex. It is made enjoyable so that we may procreate and continue the species. If the male is not aroused a sex act cannot continue. Believe me it is enjoyable and a way of showing love and affection. So please don't stop !!!!!
     
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    As MJ sings..Beat it Beat It!! xo
     
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    Sometimes there is nothing better than a woman taking control with Her hands and the feeling of being explored by a women's touch.....
     
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    There is a mental aspect to receiving a hand job.. That doesn't exist w most other sex acts... It may sound odd, but to lay back and just "be pleasured" by your partner is nice . And very erotic for me. Different from oral , in that I'm still in an "offensive" or aggressive mindset during oral.. Which consumes the brain with certain thoughts. When I'm laid back on the bed and given a handjob, my brain shuts off and I seem to "submit" to being pleasured..
     
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    ^^^ what he said so well :)
     
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    Because a woman's hand feels better then our own
     
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    Same feeling when I finger the girl.
     
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    Because men like soft things(your hands, tits, ass, thighs, pussy, hair) just like women like hard things(our dicks, thrusts, chest, shoulders, and arm muscles).
     
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    I prefer them to BJ, although very few can give me oral that make me want it again and again, and it's a huge turn on to watch, especially during ejaculation.
    As for a HJ, it's visual and sensations.
    LOVE just letting a woman do her thing, I show how, give feedback, enjoy.
    I love watching feminine hands .... handle me, and it feels better than oral 90% of the time except for those few extremely orally talented ones.
    I like it how a woman gets all turned on watching me leak precum, feel and see me twitch in their hands, and one who got all wet playing with my balls getting tight. I feel not only selfishly so good, but turned on watching a woman get all excited giving edging, all the dripping, the extra hardness, prolonged tingling and orgasms.
    Any woman who learned just loved it, feeling the difference and watching them revel in their pleasing to a high level.
    That is the visual turn on, especially when they finally finish me. And the sensations a woman's hands give my penis and balls.
     
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    I like it because it is interactive. She just isn't laying there while I please her or looking at the ceiling.
     
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    I like it because it's a different feeling compared to a mouth , vagina , anus , or whatever. ...plus she can talk dirty , harder to so that with a cock in her mouth.
     
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    How I view it also.