WHy do I get so insecure

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  1. hothornychick

    hothornychick New Member

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    Hi

    I really need some advice, I have been with my partner for 3 years but still I feel insecure with our relationship, yes he has done something to lose my trust but that was a year ago but I just seem not to be able to get it out my head, dont get me wrong he never had sex with another woman or nothing, but he was emailing an ex saying all sorts of stuff and I found out and was really upset cos I could not understand why when I give him everything a man could ask for. But all he said was he felt very unloved at the time and she gave him attention but he was the one that made contact with her and I all think all the time is why. I need help to get over this has any body got any ideas.
     
  2. HardRocker

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    Someone else's asinine actions should not cause insecurity in you, they should make you mad. If you don't feel secure after 3 years, it is time to get counseling to help find the source of the insecurity; whether it comes from you or him. And then maybe decide whether to stay or move on.
     
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    I'll 2nd HR...