Why do I feel so dead inside

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  1. Shadowagent

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    Feedback would be nice, but yeah it feels like my heart his been torn to shreds and thrown into a lions cage to be eaten while I'm still alive
     
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    Either you've had a major breakup, or you've forgotten to pick up the laundry on your side of the bed.

    Either way, you have my empathy. I've been through both, and they each lead to the same feeling of pain, regret and misery.
     
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    Breakup happend not very long ago
     
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    god my soul to take sucked
     
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    everytime i see you that's all i can think of :D
     
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    This is the third thread you've started on this failed relationship shadowagent....:eyes
    And the first two got 72 replies between them.....
    I mean really man'....what else do you want us to say mate?:shrug

    Yeah, life's a bitch sometimes....heartbreak has happened to all of us and for some, it'll happen again too....:cry
    But it gets to the stage where you've just got to suck it up, learn from the experience and get on with your life right?..
    I'll leave this one open for now, in case anyone's got something to add...but you can only have a pity party for so long.
    Time to pick yourself up, dust yourself off.....and get on with it dude..;)
     
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    You can't feel too dead inside. You went from omg it hurts and i dont know what to do to I have to go get ready for a date.

    Seriously guy, the world isn't over, you heart isn't dead, you will move on.
     
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    ...and odds are this will happen to you again. Sucks, right?

    The silver lining is, hopefully, you have learned something before you go on to your next relationship.
     
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    Remember...Lifes a Bitch, then you marry one LOL or in a friends case 4. I just got lucky and knew a good thing when I found it.
     
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    Oh get over it yes life is shit but worse happens at sea :shrug:toast go out get pissed and the best way over her is to get on one :eek
     
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    Hey there pretty nurse, care to educate me what this means?
    It's a language thing for me, and thanks in advance.
     
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    While empathy is there as you saw from many here also you have to stop spinning in your sorrows really. Live your pain, let time do its thing.

    DO NOT date and meet with serious intentions (but don't use girls though) because you are vulnerable and this is a recipe for failure.
    Get your head and heart in order, take little things in and live.
     
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    Exactly what I was thinking.
    Where's R. Lee Ermey when you need him.
     
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    my soul to take is a movie. the OP sent me a pic of the actor in that movie (on the movie set, with wes craven who directed it) and said it was him :lol
     
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    I kissed a fucking picture of her...
     
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    Kinda sad but that is true. Well sometimes