Why do guys like anal sex???

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  1. Oscar

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    I see there is a couple of threads regarding anal sex/play on this forum. However there is none dealing with men`s point of view. I`m quite interested in knowing how other guys think about it. I`m rather new to anal sex. I always wanted to try it but until recently my girlfriend refused. We both enjoy it now. I`d like to know things like what makes it attractive for a guy, how often do you practice it, does it feel much different for you than vaginal intercourse, what is your favorite position, do you use toys, etc...


    Another good question is whether it has been always a regular part of sexual life of many couples or it has become widely practiced just recently.


    Let me be the first to tell his experience. As I said I`m quite knew to it. I never thought it could make so much sensation to both sides. We practice it almost every week and we cannot image our sexual life without it anymore. It doesn`t feel much different than vaginal sex but it is more kinkier, something new. Our favorite position is doggy and woman on top (this position can drive her crazy) :D As to toys we are still looking for the best one to try :cool


    just wondering...
     
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    Oscar, You are assuming all men enjoy anal.
    Well just put me down as never engaging in anal
    and I definitely never will, My personal opinion is if I wanted to play in shit
    I would have her shit in a bucket and play in it.
    Kinky is fine as I have a lot of kinky things to do that I enjoy.
    We role play, Her as a street walker etc. and after that we can eat each other. And after anal I think everything would stop and I
    just don't like to stop when we are having sex.:sf
     
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    I have a couple of reasons.

    1) The fact I can cum in there.
    2) the fact I can cum in there..wait already said that..lol
    3) Tightness
    4) The biggie, she likes it, and wants it...
    5) And the fact it is viewed as something somewhat Taboo, and that
    that I am the only one that has done that with her.
     
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    I think the main attraction is the TABOO feeling of it! And the feeling like that no part of the girl's body is off limits! She's totally yours!

    But to just plunge into it without the very necessary precautions and a totally mutal understanding with your partner is reckless and rude!
     
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    I have anal maybe once a month or so with my g/f.

    The feeling is different for me than vaginal intercourse.

    It feels like her ass is cutting off my dick's cirulation, no matter how much lube we use.

    As for why I like it...I really like the fact I can cum in her ass, kind of kinky. The tightness makes me cum pretty fast...and just the fact it is anal.

    A woman urinates out of her vagina though... same deal if you think about it.

    But to each their own... maybe you are into watersports lol.

    I do agree that you have to wash up after you are done, that is the only drawback.
     
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    Um, no, women do not urinate out of their vagina. Someone is in dire need of an anatomy class.
     
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    Urine is actually somewhat clean, or can be made clean..while crap is just that...no matter what you eat..lol
     
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    Urine is perfectly sterile unless a urinary tract infection is present.
     
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    I did sleep through health class but.... I know the female anatomy better than most guys.

    I know women urinate out of their urethra (The little hole above the vagina)... men urinate through theirs as well.

    I just meant that the urine and bacteria can be inside the vagina from urine.

    So either way, anal or vaginal sex, there is going to be some kind of bacterial waste.
     
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    I'm a big fan of a little 'bum luvin' but I'm not going to compare apples to oranges.
    HardRocker is correct. Urine is just plain not comparable to fecal matter.
     
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    Oscar,
    Anal sex with women has been around as long as sex, and was often used as a form of birth control, or to preserve a woman's vaginal virginity.

    It has become more common in my lifetime, I never would have thought of doing it when I started having sex, it just wasn't around. We may be able to thank the porn industry for it, but it was also mentioned in some of the first sex manuals in the early seventies.

    I like two things about anal, my experience was that partners into anal got very hot at the thought of it, and the foreplay before penetration was always exciting.

    Anal penetration has a whole lot of things going for it: it feels very different, hot and tight is the overwhelming sensation, very hot. There is the mental thing of your partner giving you this special thing. And there is the background of taboo, which is aways arousing.

    I would do it tomorrow, tonight, if I could, but my wife is overcome not with the possibility of pain but with the taboo. Even in my first mainstream novel where there was implied anal sex, she was disgusted at what I wrote and just thinking of the two characters doing such a thing. And for heavens sake, they were just characters in my story!

    Anyone got any ideas on how to de-taboo or de-disgust a woman re anal?
     
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    Like another thread, I'm a little late and all the great info has already been posted. :)

    The rectum usually has very little (trace amounts) of fecal matter in it, except right before you have a BM. Those that oppose anal sex (Butt Luvin') usually bring up shit, but in reality it is a very minor issue. Sure, you have to wash up when you're done, but it's really not a big deal. Having said that, not everyone enjoys anal, or wants to experience it, and that's perfectly fine too. To each their own, right?

    As for why I like it? For all the same reasons everyone else has mentioned. It's taboo. It's tight. It's hot. It feels good. And there is a special bond that forms when sharing something so sacred. Trust plays a very important role in anal sex. I prefer being on both ends, both giving and receiving. and IMO, it's bliss either way.
     
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    i used to have a gf which was really into it. there were times when we did it almost everytime. or first front, then back. both enjoyed it a lot, also the fact one can come in there without worrying about condoms and such. and the "dirtfactor" is pretty minimal. give yourself a little wash and you are fine again. even if you do it front and use condoms, you would practice this. a semen-sticky dicky is not really pleasant...

    and for the reason why: its special, its hot, its tight, its taboo.. also the fact you can freely play with the vagina meanwhile has something to it.. doubles the pleasure is all i can say!
     
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    *cough*
     
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    I assumed you meant that a woman urinates from her vaginal area (not literally out of her vaginal opening), but this brings in interesting question. So just what do you call that entire area? You can't really just call it the vagina or pussy, etc, because that's only one of the many components down there. Any ideas? Female genitals sounds too clinical, btw.
     
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    Vulva...? (Of course the vagina itself is not included.)
     
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    i haven't heard of a guy who doesn't like it

    i like it of course. i've done it once or twice with my second girl. i was her first boyfriend, (she was kind of shay, introverted). she'd wanted it. she'd just torn around and signaling to me. eventually, it was my first time, so i hadn't gotten inside her. that's was it. owr friendship had last a little more then a year.
     
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    The accepted (and I think the medically corect) term for the external female genital area is vulva.

    As for de-tabooing a woman, I will not browbeat my wife into doing anything outside of her limits, but her taboo on anal play is quite strange. She really got upset that I wrote an implied anal sex scene into a mainstream novel, and felt hurt for the characters, even though it was the woman who had to talk her partner into it for his 'birthday present', and they are just characters in a book!

    I can understand any woman not wanting a cock up her arse, but deep disgust at the thought of any form of anal play (just touching or fingering) on her or me is unusual in this day and age.
     
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    I think guys like it cuz its like a domination thing. Like theyre going "Im fucking your ass because I can" kind of thing. Its hot to have the guy in control like that using a girl for pleasure even if she isnt getting any lol.
     
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