why do guys have to wait before being able *to do it* again?

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  1. r 90909

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    Why must some men have to wait a period of time after just having intercourse- (let it be 15 minutes, an hour, etc.)- before they are able to have sex again? Also, during this *wait* period of time are they unable to be aroused? Thanks so much everyone :)
     
  2. Elvis

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    Many young men don't need to, but many do.
    It's the way things are.
    For a male to have an orgasm takes a lot of energy.
    To build up for the next one takes time, from about 3 minutes upward.
    Semen and sperm aren't stored in an endless supply.

    Google male orgasm there's a wealth of related information.
     
  3. Dreama

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    My fiance has to wait at least a day to orgasm again, but he can still be aroused. It really sucks, sometimes for the poor guy. But, at least he can control when he comes.
     
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    My boyfriend needs around 5 or 10 minutes...
    but the longer we have sex the harder it is to get him up...
    tho ive heard u can only cum 7 times in a session?
     
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    My husband is and always has been that same way. I feel bad for these men sometimes, having to keep up with us multiple orgasm blessed women. :lol
     
  6. Elvis

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    Hmmmm, depends if you mean men or women, LOL and how long the session?

    Fairy stories Animul, I never heard that.

    There was an old couple I worked with and the old guy said, "You only get 1000 fucks in your life." I think he really believed that, but I'm not sure, how about you?
     
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    Sorry about that but Semen is stored for the occasion. And is completely
    dumped when cumming.
    I do not stop being aroused and do not stop arousing my partner, And sometimes
    I can maintain an erection, but not often, And I take about 15 min before I can cum again.
    I have said this somewhere before but here goes again.
    I have been able to cum 17 times in a 24 hour period and could have done it more
    the next day but we were both so sore that the heat off my hand while taking
    a leak hurt like hell and She could hardly walk.
    Hey Naughty wanna help me break that record, Please.

    Hiker:dgrin
     
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    I know..I like to share the feeling, but the poor guy just can't do it. It's crazy because he maintains his erection, but he can't cum any more than once a day.
     
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    So that we can lick something while waiting for it to come back up. :p
     
  10. Kronnie

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    Not all guys are the same though, i cum quite well first time, i have to wait a litle while but can masturbate again and still orgasm , this is going to sound bad but ahh well..
    last night i managed 5 orgasms from 5 hand jobs .
    i can do that quite a bit, but after 5 thats when i start feeling a touch saw below .
     
  11. NaughtyKnickers

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    Yes, please. :D :p
     
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    Younger men can have multiple orgasms....

    well in my experience anyway....

    they are great fun!!!!!

    :)
     
  13. Kronnie

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    Scorp some of us older guys can to :p...
     
  14. Animularisen

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    7 cums from a guy a day...
    then u gotta leave it a couple of days before u can cum again
    i just heard it
     
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    It's obvious. The guy's SEXUAL ENERGY gets spent! Most of us need a while to let our bodies re-charge the batteries! It's a great time for snack and an expresso! What's the rush?
     
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    Kronnie...

    You are not an older guy

    are you?
     
  17. Kronnie

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    well 34 im thinking i could be sen as older by some hahahaha...

    By some people 34 is past it and over the hill ....


    Im just teasing and messing Scorp :p
     
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    If I'm aroused enough-- which I almost always am with my partner-- I can stay hard after cumming, and do so over and over and over. Sometimes I will cum within a minute from my last cum, but it usually takes a few minutes. Maintaining a hard erection becomes more and more difficult with each cum, but cumming in less time becomes easier after each cum, until you are raw, at which point it becomes more and more difficult to come.

    I remember cumming 14 times one morning with my partner and not even feeling worn out (tired from the oxytocin, yes, but not physically exhausted). We may have had more sex that night, I don't remember. I am young (22), and my partner is the most attractive woman I have ever set eyes on. Even after cumming eight or nine times, I can get very hard most of the time just by looking into her eyes.

    The first ejaculate is the largest; subsequent ejaculates range from just a drop to almost as big as the first. It just depends. Hydration, arousal, and time from last ejaculation will effect that.
     
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    It's just the way men are built physically. Once we orgasm the system shuts down. Younger guys can reload in 5-10 minutes and time gap increases as you age.
     
  20. Kronnie

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    I came 72 times in 25 mins....
    i came here i came there i came everywhere hehe

    All that walking nearly drove me up the wall.