Why are some women afraid of vibrators?

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  1. KateM

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    [FONT=&quot][/FONT] [FONT=&quot]Do they just fear to have an electric machine on their private parts? Afraid it might hurt them?[/FONT]
     
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    Are you sure you're a woman?
     
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    You have a good point, as my wife doesn't like them at all, not even enough to give anything that vibrates a chance to give her pleasure. Part of it is that the sound is distracting to her, and also that it is an artificial device and not "natural," and the intensity of the feeling when she did try one once was intimidating and scared her. I've tried to get her to try again, but as soon as she hears it or feels it, she is completely turned off. She will operate a G spot wand on herself while I lick her though, and I had to teach her how to use it by making her cum with it. Women can be fickle.
     
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    Hehe good one.
     
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    I ain't a skeered of no vibe, in fact, I love the things.

    If the sensation is too intense, you can always put a washcloth over it to ease it up a bit.
     
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    My wife think they tickle like crazy :lol
     
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    I'm not a fan of them even though I own several. I agree that the sound can be distracting but really I simply prefer human flesh.
     
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    duh...:eyes
     
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    Actually my real life initials are "D.A.H." not "d.u.h.". Please get it right next time Paula. :lol
     
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    duh not d.u.h.

    Better?

    What does D.A.H. stand for?
     
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    No sweetie, "a" not "u".

    (Just pulling your leg.)
     
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    oeps I stumbled :lol
     
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    ontopic dah
     
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    i love vibrators,...a nice toy for both of us
     
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    I'm not afraid of a vibrator at all and I've known no woman is is truly afraid. I know a few who just don't like them and that's personally preference. I'm hit or miss, there's been very few that I actually ENJOY. The one i love(d) was a grand total of 0 dollars as a toy tester, that thing is amazing. Retails for around 80. I want another....
     
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    I think some girls are scared because they think its too out of their realm, like its too freaky. Ive brought some women to one of the 3 sex stores close by for the first time and got to witness first vibrator day. The good part is that she says her pussy was wet thinking about it and couldnt wait to get home to test it. The better part was that they decided not to even have the convenience to put batteries in the dam boxes. Thats so rude lol. Give me some fuckin Bobs Batteries, I dont give a fuck. Ill get more and long as its good for a first out of the box fuck session.

    Anyways, Ive dated someone who was scared to go into a sex shop. I tried pulling her in as we walked by but it looked like she was about to throw a tantrum. One day I brought a vibrator and a fire and ice condom over by surprise and vibrated that soaking pussy before we fucked hard with a spicy condom, and guess what, she loved it. Just open up alittle, be human and feel the pleasure of gooder sex with toys.
     
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    i think your right on the money, i wanted to buy one for my ex (when we where dating) but she was scared it would be "to powerful" for her, granted she was very sensitive, but i think that idea of it being overwhelming can apply to a lot of women
     
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    On a lighter note, I once bought a gf one for valentines day........:lol ...biiiig mistake, I was 18 and not very wise.( ya think?!?!)....I think she was expecting flowers or candy or something.....the concept of romance hadn't settled in to my perverted juvenile mind yet....:lol. Incidentally, it never got used, and every time I took it out I was reminded what an asshole I am...
     
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    Never really met a woman that was scare of one. When I first met my wife she was more of a finger girl but over the years she has developed a real passion for vibs.