Why Am I So Obsessed with Anal

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    Why am I so Obsessed with Anal Sex?

    Hey, sorry for being so straightforward...

    I am a young straight male and over the past few years I have just gotten more into the idea of anal sex with girls...

    I havent done it yet, and i dont think my girl would let me, but it's like really what im into right now.

    I dont know what it is, when i see a girl with a fat ass, I just wanna have deep anal with her so badly... It's like I dont even really care whether she enjoys it or not...

    Is there something wrong with that? 2 things i think there might be, one because women seem to mostly hate the idea even of anal sex, and two, it's obviously the "wrong hole"...

    Honestly though it just seems like the "right hole" to me lately... I still have straight vaginal sex with my girl, but When i watch porno or something, a female's asshole just looks 5000% more enticing then her vagina... I dont know...
     
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    Not sure what your age is. The part that "bothers" me..... is that you don't really care whether she enjoys it or not, and that you want it cuz most women hate the idea of it. "Is there something wrong with that?" I'm gonna be straightforward too, and let you know that I am here to learn things that will please me AND my lovers. I want nothing to do with a damn thing that will disrespect the person sharing the experience with me. So, my opinion....wanting the ass is not wrong. The seeming lack of respect..... doesn't seem RIGHT to me.... but hell, that's just me, and you won't get my ass (and I like it there!).
     
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    I can completely undersatnd how that would bother you but i am being totally truthful... it's like i dont even care... I'm not saying that i prefer it that way but it's almost like funny ?? if she's screaming and stuff and you just bust in her ass... not that I am saying rape or anything, like I said I dont care either way... the whole point is not even that its just im asking why i am so much more attracted to a womens ass then her pussy lately... sorry for being so straightforward again

    First and second posts edited for spelling.
     
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    really we wont be able to tell you why...but I'm sure the members here could come up with some decent options to help you maybe get it figured out...

    one thing that comes into my head is you want it because its 'taboo' BECAUSE a lot of women don't enjoy it. its a challenge for you ... i mean its hard to say not knowing more about you, but thats one possibility
     
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    maybe i should say also it feels like lately i dont even care about a womans personality anymore even... just how her body looks. I KNOW that sounds so stupid and chilidsh but I'm just saying how it is... It's like I dont even really care that much about how pretty her FACE is anymore... just that she has a tight body and a nice big ass... That will be the type of woman that i will want to talk to no matter what, even if she is a total bimbo or the most boring girl on earth... just hoping that i can get up in that ass... My girl is even starting to kind of notice that i am losing interest... i dont know what to say
     
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    Ryan..... really....... tell me as a newbie what to do here. It's taking every ounce of self restraint I have. Someone help me here.
     
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    like i said im sorry jus being honest
     
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    Moved to Sexual Fetishes and Stories forum.
     
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    For me its just a curiousity thing. I never done anal to anyone before but i've been curious about it. During sex I would talk (just talk) about how if i want to i would put it in her ass. I would never do it of course but the threat was a turn on for both of us. Maybe one of these days she might be drunk enough and give in and say yes. lol.
     
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    If you've never done anal I can understand why you want it. It's kinky and you want to experience it! Nothing wrong with that. (Although, as already stated, not caring if your partner enjoys it or not might be a little off-center.)

    I've done it several times and have little desire to try it again. An ex gf actually preferred it to vaginal intercourse. I didn't. It's a fun thing to try, but it's not all it's cracked up to be. (Pardon the pun.)
     
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    I echo the "fingers on the chalkboard" feeling I got when you say you don't care whether she likes it or not...blah...blah...blah. Hopefully you are young, selfish and immature, and you will grow out of that phase.

    Okay, that said, the number of people who enjoy anal sex has increased - both male AND female. There are many of us who like the 'forbidden-ness' of it. Just feeling my man squeeze his cock into my ass, knowing how 'wrong' it is.... it's so hot. And personally, I like to role-play that he is forcing me (and he indulges :brow), BUT he KNOWS I truly am letting him and I like it.

    My advice? Pretty simple: It's important to find a partner that is on the same page sexually as you are. Next girlfriend you get, make sure she likes anal. Otherwise, you might find your ass in prison for rape..... yeah, RAPE.

    As usual, jmho.... :rose
     
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    Might do the boy some good to find out what it's like to be forced to have anal... just this time he'd be on the receiving end!:lol
     
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    Very good observation, A-1! ;)
     
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    Rose, A..... I love you guys. LOVE I say!
     
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    As ever, your subtle wit astounds me. *bows*
     
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    Dear Panther 06,

    There are a number of porn movies that make anal sex look like good rough sex.

    It is true from my experience that heavier women are more apt to enjoy anal sex. Not a firm rule.

    The blood vessels in the rectum are close to the surface, so bleeding is real easy.

    The area is sensitive, so if a young lady does agree to anal sex, you might want to use lots of lube, and be real gentle.

    Since it is easy to catch Aids and Syphlis with anal sex, I would encourage you to use an expensive rubber.

    If you are not using a rubber and you ejaculate insider a ladies ass, relalize that you just gave her an enima, and she will most likely have to take a dump and blow some farts.

    I love my wife's ass. I rub my penis on her bun muscles. My wife has not agreed to do anal sex since the Aids scare. So I keep my tip no closer than 2 inches from her anus. But I lube up my tip and rub my knob all over her buns. After I have sucked my wife's teats for a few minutes, she is hot enough to let me stroke on her buttox.

    When I am having vaginal sex with my wife, I wil sometimes postion my penis so I feel like I am next to her rectum, and she seems to enjoy that.

    I squeeze my wife's bun muscles as I am starting into my irreversible conquest to climax. I squeeze her buns tightly with my fingers, and she seems to like it, and she can sometimes climax with me. My wife is Scorpio, and and there was a book of Sun and Moon sigs for women, and their tastes in sex. So astrology may help. The book suggested that my wife like lots of lube and anal play, so the book is not totally inaccurate.

    I would suggest seing how you can play around with your GF with safe sex staying out of her but hole, but just getting enjoyably close. Build up trust in your gf, maybe starter jacking off into her legs, and working up to her buns. Find some compromise. Suggest something closer to what you want, than what you have now.
     
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    Dear Panther 06,

    I have a somewhat addictive personality, where I can go overboard wtih things. When I notice that I am going to far with somethiong, I try to find a way to step back. If you feel you are becomming obsessed with Anal, you might find a strategey for focusing your mind on something positive, to take your mind off Ass.

    I try to imagine my wife as represnting every woman in the world to me. Every type of sex act that can be imagined, I imagine doing with my wife. My wife is limited in what she will actually do, particularly with any frequency. But I try to give my wife pleasure, and then ask for some steps in the direction of my desires. What I don't get in reality, I make up in imagination.

    I run my tounge arond my wife's legs, hips and buttocks muscles. I try to make my toung as sharp as I can squeeze the tip and press the tip of my tounge as far and as hard as I can into her seat muscles. I try to make it hurt, but she seems to only feel pleasure.

    Search this forum for Anal Sex, and you will find a number of threads discussing more issues with rear door fun
     
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    I kind of agree with the folks above who replied. I love women's butts, they are so sexy and so beautiful! Although I am faithful to my wife (hence we don't have to worry about AIDS or other diseases), over the years I have noticed other women and their butts and breasts and beautiful faces at times. Sometimes I have wondered what it would be like to push my penis into some woman's vagina or anus. I still wonder what butt fucking would be like with my wife since we never have done that. Yet, even so, I just could NEVER have sex with any woman in a way which was not just as pleasureable or even MORE pleasureable for her than it was for me! Sometimes sex can be on my mind a lot, however, any fantasy I have or in real life with my wife, involves caring, gentleness and pleasure for us both. Occasionally, when we have made love, doing "69", I have slipped my finger gently into my wife's butt. Initially she was not happy about that, but in recent years, she has accepted it and even moves to push my finger up her butt when I occasionally stick it in there. Then I lick her clit and tongue fuck her until she cums with my finger in her butt. If we ever do anal sex with my penis, I would want to gently get my penis in her and make her cum with my penis in her before I gently fucked her butt and cummed in her. Yet, even so, it is not something I would want us to do all the time although I would at least like to do it once or twice before I die! By the way, sometimes my wife does "hand jobs" on me and sometimes, when she does that, I love to have her stick her finger up my butt! I LOVE to cum with her finger up my butt!! It makes me feel totally taken by her and I cum so hard when she does that! She has also learned to put lotion on my glans (the tip of my penis) and rub around the edges of my glans in a way that drives me totally wild! I usually grunt and groan and cum really hard when she does that!
     
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    Thats crazy I couldnt ever see myself marrying a woman who wouldnt give me anal when I crave it, i mean my girlfriend doesnt let me but i didnt even ask her i know she would probably say no but i dont want to marry her anyway...

    shit i would rather marry a stripper as long as she lets me bone her in the ass
     
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    What are you gonna do when your future wife wants to you do something/participate in something that you don't feel comfortable with?