Why am I pissed? I’m not really sure, I just know that I am. This is kinda a long story, but I hope you will bare w/me. hat First of all, I have this thing about dating and or sleeping with anyone directly involved in my work other areas of business. I don’t do it. I just find it better to keep that clean for my own good. Second, there is a family that I work very closely with and have a lot of respect for. I spend a lot of time with them at different work events, and I want to continue to work w/them for many years to come. So the husband tells me he would like to introduce me to a friend of his. I wasn’t really interested, as I don’t really have a hard time meeting men. But he showed up at an event w/him, and we met very briefly. I was kinda sorry for blowing him off at first, b/c it turns out…he was really HOT. So the guy sends me a flattering message on myspace and we proceed to chat a bit. Things were looking very promising for a hot and heavy first meeting if you know what I mean. :brow There was an event coming up, and he was planning on meeting me there since my bosses would also be there, and he is a friend of the family. He is actually the friend of my boss’s wife’s brother. So the two of them drive together. I have met the brother numerous times in the past at various events. So Hottie shows up, looking just as tasty as I hoped he would and we end the evening at my hotel room. This guy knew exactly how to fuck me (and he knew it). Very confident in his actions and I love that. I didn’t have to tell him a thing, he just knew. I love that too. He had a gorgeous thick cock and body to match, very athletic. This guy scored a 10 in The Mistress’s book. Four Gold Stars next to his name in the little black book. :cheer So the next night, at the end of the event, I am getting ready for us to head back to the hotel, when Hottie suggests that we invite his friend (the boss’s brother) to join us. I had already had several glasses of wine, but was not drunk by far. Before I could give an answer, this guy picks up the phone and calls his friend and asks him if he wants to meet us at the hotel. My mind flashes back to the night before when we are in the midst of some really hot sex, and he throws out there “how sexy I would look handling two dicks”. At that moment, I thought to myself….self…he is setting you up right now for a threesome later. I just didn’t think the later would be so soon. At that time, I was like HOLD UP. I’m not so sure this is a good idea. Did you forget I am the one driving this bus?:tsktsk Not that the brother is a bad looking guy, or that I am against doing a threesome w/two hot guys, but for me, he was just too close to my inner circle and that is against my rules. I might not have a lot of morals, but I DO have a lot of rules designed to keep me out of trouble. At any rate, I wasn’t willing to let that one come back to haunt me. So I tell Hottie I don’t think this is a very good idea. He seems irritated that I am acting like this, and begins trying to convince me it’s “ok”, “who will know?”, “who will tell?”, “no one will care”, “you are over reacting”, etc. Then he gets a little pissier and says, “I just can’t believe you are acting like this. At least give me a better excuse than that. I thought you were a sexy, confident, mature women.” **This might have worked if I was still a silly 18 year old girl At this point, I feel like he is trying to pressure and manipulate me, which I won’t have. If you are going to boss me around….you better already have your dick in my pussy b/c that is the only time I will let that happen. So I looked at my car parked a few feet away, looked back at him w/the most serious face I could manage, and told him, that I AM a sexy, confident mature woman which is why I’m not going to let you pressure me into making a bad decision. (I can’t STAND to be told what to do). At this point, he decided he better back off b/c things were about to go south. I have to hand it to him, he somehow managed to salvage the mood. He called his friend, told him to forget what he said right then. And then we proceeded on w/our night as planned, but ya know….it was already “out there” and there was an underlying uncomfortable feeling. The next morning, we both left back to our home towns, and things were “ok”. So why am I pissed? I managed to control the situation, but for some reason I am pissed that he put me in that position and that there now seems to be a gorilla in the room if you know what I mean. I am pissed b/c that was a fantastic piece of ass that I wanted to keep around for future use, and now I feel irritated with him. Since then, we haven’t really talked (just a brief IM), which is not a big deal. I know how men like that operate, so I know the drill. I operate at a higher “playing” level than most ppl myself, and so does this guy, which actually makes us kinda dangerous. Anyway, I just had to vent, and you guys seemed like the best ppl to listen. That’s all….much better now thanks.