Who's on first?

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  1. Stoopid

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    Who orgasms first...boyfriend or girlfriend? Husband or wife? You or her? Him or you? Be honest!
     
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    whoever needs or wants it the most, we rarely stop after the first one anyway!
     
  3. MordsithLove

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    ladies first!!!!!
     
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    Ladies first, always!
     
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    The boyfriend cums fourth. I cum first, second, and third. And sometimes fifth.
     
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    usually me, multiple times.
     
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    It doesn't matter, who ever loses control first.
     
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    with me an my girlfriend i usually make her let me get her off at least once first then we have fun and work on both of us getting off, i usually make sure the ratio stays at minimum 3 to 1
     
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    Her min x6 then me, then her again sometimes :)
     
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    I had an old Italian guy give me a pointer one time and I kind of use it as a general rule of thumb.

    "Emma always come a first. Then I come. Then two ss's come together, then I come again. Two ss's come together. Then I Pee Pee then I come again one lasta time."

    This has always worked for me when pleasing a woman, plus it helps me remember how to spell MISSISSIPPI !!!!!!
     
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    My policy has always been ladies first. Not only is it polite, gentile and mannerful, it also highly increases one's likely hood of "return engagements".

    xx
     
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    I always try to be first. When I win the race I get up, do my touchdown dance and spike her vibrator
     
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    I always make sure she gets hers first depending on the type of play we are engaged in it may be one or two or many-many before I release. Quite often it's several before I even enter her.
     
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    Whoever feels more in the mood to have more than one for that sexual session.

    Depending on the circumstances, after two or so I lose interest in the scenario; but that doesn't mean I'd stop if she wanted more.
     
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    Always ladies first, and then as many times as she wants before I get mine. On extended weekend getaways I will often "service" her multiple times a day and save my orgasm until the end of the day - have even waited until the last day of our stay to get mine so I was always "ready to go." She feeds off my increased hunger from delaying my release and the increased energy state leads to incredibly hot sessions that can last for days.
     
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    Usually the wifey! At least once or twice.
     
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    My wife always comes first and not by chance. I thoroughly enjoy making sure she's enjoyed herself. After she's come three or more times, we change positions and she comes a few more times. Then, and only then, do I/we focus on my orgasm. Her excitement in the sounds she makes and her generally aggressive frenzied, behavior builds mine so it's all good.
     
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    I like to give the girl oral pleasure so she has an orgasm first, then I may have orgasm afterwards. When I have penetrative sex I like to rub her clit and hold myself back so she climaxes first and then as she is having her orgasm I let myself cum. If I lose control and climax first, (I find it hard not to lose control when I'm inside her), I give the girl lots of oral pleasure afterwards so she enjoys her orgasm. I love for the girl to have an orgasm.
     
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    I always make sure wifey orgasms first usually while my face is buried between her legs! ;-)
     
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    yep... totaly the wife first then... me... Just cant stop till she gets hers...I love it... then its my turn...