Who puts it in?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Frank Grimes, May 21, 2004.

  1. Frank Grimes

    Frank Grimes New Member

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    I have sex a lot with her on top, and she always grabs my cock and inserts it, and even guides me in sometimes when I'm on top. Is that normal, or is the guy supposed to always put his manhood in himself?
     
  2. lusciousax

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    I think there is no way that it SHOULD be done. If you don't mind her putting it in, then just keep it that way. Change things up if you feel like it. There is no RIGHT or WRONG way to do things in the bedroom. Its all about what you and your partner enjoy and feel comfortable with!
     
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    Amen to that lusciousax! You wrote words of wisdom.
     
  4. gillian

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    If I'm going on top, I tend to put the guy's cock in but if we're in the missionary position, I usually let him put it in. Guess it depends on the guy and the position! Hell, as long as someone puts it in!!
     
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    exactly :D
     
  6. crusty

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    I love it when the girl grabs me and puts me in, makes you feel even more wanted I reckon, like they can't wait any longer they gotta have it so they grab it and put it in, personally it gets the thumbs up from me :D
     
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    Crusty-

    I am very relieved to see that you are a male.
     
  8. crusty

    crusty New Member

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    I'm not sure I get how you thought I wasn't? lol
     
  9. Frank Grimes

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    Well, with a name like Crusty.......

    No, I wasn't sure because I hadn't seen any of your posts before. No biggie.
     
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    It doesn't matter who and who puts in...as long as both are comfortable with..can't judge this my manhood or anything ok dude..
     
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    i actually prefer her to put it in her, that way she can guide how much she can handle instead of me doing the guess work and pushing it in till she has a cringe on her face or taps me to pull back.
     
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    It depends on the position - it's easier 4 the guy 2 if its doggy, but like u guys said, if its the gal on top she could.
     
  13. queen cat

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    There is no "Right" way it should be done.
    Aslong as she is lubed ur fine, sometimes I let my man enter me in that position, but i`d rather slide slowly down to let him in.... :brow

    Your woman seems quite dominant...... :p
     
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    Hmm, lets c. I dont really keep track of who puts it in. as long as it gets n there, thas really all tha matters.
     
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    i agree with the general consensus of "as long as it gets in"...

    sometimes i'm just too into it and put it in myself but sometimes i like to feel him put it in - i guess it depends on which mood i'm in - dominant or submissive :brow
     
  16. tsopkc

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    Hey having her inserting the throbing "member" is the only way to go! When ever I'm with a new partner at just the right moment I always take her hand and position it on my penis! It's funny they always seem to know what's next! (smile).

    Plus it feels sooooooooo good too!
     
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    For me and my bf, it totaly depends. When I'm on top usually I slid down on him, and sometimes for a bit of fun don't take him in all he way and tease him, oh man thats a good onem always leaves him begging for more!
     
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    Woah! :D you sound like one sexy lady!

    Anyway I usually put it in just because I get the most comfortable fit that way because as queen cat said so well I'd prefer to slide down on it also :phat
     
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    My bf and I have tried both ways, him inserting and me, with several positions, I like it when he inserts because we can keep our eyes on one another. One way or another i wanna eventually get to the good stuff. lol
     
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    Putting it in yourself in the passion of the moment can be a test of coordination.