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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by mousse, May 5, 2007.
I've never done it. I have no interest in trying it. I find the concept a complete turnoff.
Sadly, all modern porn is now flooded with anal sex.
I tried it, and when I was about to cum, I pulled out and my GF "accidentally" farted on my face.
No more Anal Ever!
Heh.. is it just us? For some reason it doesnt seem morally correct. But so many people seem to be induldging in it and I can't help but feel disgusted. My girlfriend has done it, somewhat against her will, and said she didn't like it. But because it seems like so many people tell me they enjoy it, it's hard to tell whether she's trying to appeal to my morals but secretly wants it, or really didn't enjoy it. She's had it pretty often too... claims she never liked it and that it just felt like she had to go to the bathroom.
I imagine cavemen did it by accident and some animals do it.
It's been going since time immemorial.
The Greeks and Romans were up for it.
The French called it 'safe sex' and maybe still do.
It's one of the most intimate things that lovers can do.
well sometimes if your with someone and you know they see in black and white only, it can be hard to say things because you will be dammed and judged for ever more...
I practiced anal sex, but not because of porn....we must find something to blame this on (not).....American courts at one stage wanted to ban Tom and Jerry cartoons because it was the route of all evil ( according to scare moungerers) and children and teenagers were killing each other because they were watching that cartoon...
If you dont like anal sex thats fine , but no need to condem and try to make others feel ashamed that they do enjoy that.
and as Angie said the greeks and romans were doing it over 2000 years ago (long before porn videos were showing .)
Lots of different types of people, not all have the same views. its acceptable as long as both partners enjoy the act.
I would enjoy having an experience of a female returning that pleasure back on me for my first time..
I will back you up on this one Kronnie, if someone doesn't like something that's fine but don't preach to us. Many girls I had anal sex with enjoyed it immensely, and I enjoyed their excitement more than the act itself.
As far as participating, what a let down! After all it is just sex, only hotter and tighter!
I can only see posts a few from some men who aren't into it?
Surely they have the right to vote?
Of course they do....we all have a say at least i think we do.
I was mearly meaning that if people do not practice and do not like , then thats cool, but for those of us that do, it is also cool.
There is no wrong or right, only choices.
but also if two partners are together and one feels extremly strongly against it and tells their partner that thats the case for them....( but perhaps the partner does not feel the same way about the act ) then they are more likly going to feel ashamed for liking and practivcing in their past.
No one should be judged from their sexual past. a person is not a sexual act, they deserve to be treated as a person, not for what they did that you do not like ...
Maybe i have put that in a bad way, but wasnt meaning it that way.
My comment wasn't aimed at you Kronnie, cbrmale mentioned 'preaching'?
My mistake sorry ...
Can't help on this one I enjoy it.
I thoroughly enjoy both giving and receiving.
I have no interest in trying. But I don't care if anyone else enjoys it - more power to them!
Put me into the "take it or leave it" category.
A former partner and I did anal quite a bit. I introduced her to it (a first for both of us), and she really liked it -- I mean A LOT. I was never that crazy about it. For one thing, once you get past the sphincter it's not that tight and certainly doesn't provide the feeling of a nice tight, wet vagina. The other thing is cleanliness. Sometimes I'd pull out and have feces on my dick. Yuck! And even if it wasn't visible, I'd have to go clean up with soap and water before we could do anything else -- or just to feel clean again.
The only times I really, really liked it was when she'd have a vibrating dildo in her pussy at the same time and I'd ride her in the cowboy position. Whoa! We both got off on that big time!
I would encourage anyone to try it a few times. (I don't think once is enough to be certain you'll never like it, as the recipient must learn to relax.) My wife tried it once with her ex and refuses to try it again. I think that's a shame, because it can be a nice change of pace now and then, but since I'm not into it much I've never pressed the issue. (As if pressing the issue would change anything.)
And I'd certainly be willing to be on the receiving end of it with my wife wearing a strap-on... with a small dildo attached, but I'm sure if she came after me with a dildo the size of my penis I'd be just like her, "no way".
No anal for me. Hemorrhoids. Ugh.
well, for now i have no interest. i'm still young, and i think there are lots of other things i want to try before getting to anal. about a month ago my boyfriend got tipsy and started talking about how much he wanted to and how i should try new things, pressuring me a bit, and i told him firmly that i wasn't saying never but that if i did do it it would be because i wanted to and not because he was pushing me, like a good boyfriend he hasn't brought it up again.
i think there are 2 reasons i'm not interested. one is physical, i'm afraid it will hurt. i think i need to be with someone a long time before i can relax enough to make it pleasurable. another is cultural, people do look down on it and see it as immoral or weird. i distinctly remember a girl from my college sorority saying, don't let a guy do you up the butt, after that you will just be the girl that let him do you up the butt. ok, even when she said that i realized it was bullshit, not to mention a good reason NOT to join a sorority, but i think i will only be able to let go of all that cultural baggage when i'm with someone who i really trust and feel comfortable with.
i hope that made sense.
"... i told him firmly that i wasn't saying never but that if i did do it it would be because i wanted to...."
Great attitude. Great response. You are wise beyond your years. My personal feeling is that you should try it sometime, but there's no hurry. Waiting until you're with someone who you really trust and feel comfortable with is a very, very good idea, imho.
ahhh joe, now you are just stroking my ego...
Sometimes there exists this sexist hypocrisy on SF, and, Joe, I'm not saying that you're one of the guilty guys, but what tends to happen is that a woman is often given the advice that if her partner wants to try something and she's reluctant, she shouldn't automatically say "no way", that she should keep an open mind. But whenever the subject of a sex act many guys have issues with is broached (penis plugs, swallowing their cum), there is always a litany of posts from regulars along the lines of "NO WAY!" "Forget it!" "No, no, no." Aren't there any sex acts you would never consider doing?