which partner makes you come

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  1. martin9p2

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    This question is about sex between a man and a woman :)
    Men, do you make yourself come most of the time, by moving your hips or otherwise, or does your woman do it for you one way or another?
    Women, do you make yourself come most of the time by moving your hips or otherwise, or does your man do it for you one way or another?
    I ask because it seems that I'm in control of all the orgasms (for both me and my GF) in my sexual relationship.
     
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    It's sort of a mutual thing.
    Of course We both work at it, I generally cum in Her mouth
    And I sort of use a jacking motion while she sucks and plays with
    my balls.
    It takes two people always.

    Hiker
     
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    Most of the time it's a mutual thing but with me doing most of the moving. Sometimes, however, I stay motionless and let her grind me off or she stays motionless and lets me go at it. It's all good.
     
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    Usually my wife rides me and grinds on my cock and makes herself come. I like to wait until she is almost done and then I come as she is finishing her last orgasm.
     
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    I control orgasms for both of us most of the time.
     
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    For me and my SO it's fairly mutual. When I come, it's usually from a combination of his cock pumping me and my fingers or vibe on my clit. Yeeeeehaw!

    When he comes during sex, I don't really have to do much. Sometimes I talk dirty to him and usually play with his nipples. It really takes him a long time to come (not that I mind;)).

    It's pretty common for me to give him a BJ after sex, since he comes better that way.

    I'd like to add that I think many women would have better orgasms if they were willing to take charge of their own orgasm. I mean, it's fab when a guy wants to help! But it's just easier for a woman to know exactly how to stimulate her own clit. And that frees up her partner's hands for other things:)
     
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    I'm always in control of my own unless my partner happens to be really talented. I'm usually in control of hers as well.
     
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    Yep same for me. I'm usually saying "you have to stop" when shes on top and "she's saying don't stop!" when i' on top!
     
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    I always make myself cum but I am also sleeping around all the time. I fuck for myself whether it's a girl or a guy.
     
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    With my wife, I'm almost always in control of the orgasms. Sometimes she works her clit, but usually it's me. I always control mine.

    This was not the case, however, with some of my past sexual partners. Specifically, with one girlfriend of mine, she could get me off with amazing proficiency.