[Ask a Girl] Wheres the line!

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  1. corvette88

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    so ive read many of the posts on this forum and it sounds like many of the women on this site are very open to new ideas there guy has brought up and vice versa. Im really interested to know where some of you draw the line. Has a boyfriend of husband ever wanted to try something that you were totally not into. Where is your personal line where things just get weird??? I would just like to know so I can gauge if my own sexual desires would be considered normal or off the wall.

    Thank you!!
     
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    No feces, vomit, dead people, family, children or animals.

    Those are my lines. Other then that, I'll try everything once that wont potentially cause any permanent damage to any part of my body or kill me.
     
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    HAHAHA okay i think im safe then!
     
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    Pretty much the only line that my gal and I have is no other people. I know some other people are into that, but that's just us. Why not bring up the things you want in a different way? Like watch a porn that you know has the stuff you want to try and ask her what she thinks about it. You don't have to mention that you want to try, but more just see how she reacts.
     
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    Safe, consensual, adult. Notice that the word "normal" isn't on that list. Another thing you'll read on these forums is that some of us dismiss the idea of "normal." If our lines aren't your lines, it doesn't mean anything. Your sexual desires are what they are. Enjoy them within the list above and you should be all right. If one person doesn't share your desires, someone else will. The variety out there is huge.

    Edit: I see from other threads that you already have a girlfriend, so my comment about someone else doesn't really apply to you right now. But my comment about our lines not meaning anything does still apply. There are two ways you can go on this: trying to fit in the "normal" box, or communicating and negotiating with your girlfriend and helping her and yourself be comfortable. I recommend the latter.
     
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    Edit again, LOL: I keep bumping into more of your threads and I realize that my advice to you is quite useless. Sex with your girlfriend has become boring and you want to spice it up, but you're worried that you might push her too far or give her a bad impression of you. You want to check with us first to see what it should be "normal" for her to agree to. You're hesitant to talk with her directly, but I see that other members are giving you tips about that. Good luck.
     
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    i can use all the advice i can get :)
     
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    You've asked us what our lines our but you've yet to say what your lines are.

    Care to enlighten us?