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Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Curtis, Mar 1, 2008.

  1. Curtis

    Curtis New Member

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    Hi all! My girlfriend and I have decided to have sex for the first time (yay lol). She's on birth control, but we want to use a condom also (I joke that we'd have a 199.999% chance of NOT getting pregnant) but I'm small (oh well) and I'm not sure a normal condom would fir me. Anyone know a good website or store to get small rubbers or/and a good one to get? Thanks!
     
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    The pill is one of the most effective forms of birth control there is, so you'd have an almost 200% chance of not getting pregnant even if you decided to forgo using the condom, but it's always wise to use condoms for protection against STDs and STIs. There are many websites that offer small condoms for sale. Just try doing a quick google of the words: "small condoms, where to find" and you'll get lots of hits.
     
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    Wow! Hard to believe a guy who'll admit "I'm small". Glad that you are self-confident enough that you don't sweat it! Go search on a thread from a while back about penis size, and there was another about what is most attractive to women in a man. Not a single woman listed penis size as any consideration...it always came last, if I recall. First was usually big heart, sense of humor, or face. Sexual skill or high libido was usually in the middle of the list. Penis size/shape was last!

    Good luck finding those special condoms!

    Cheers dude,
    BD
     
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    Seriously, I doubt you're that small. If you've been watching porno and comparing to that, of course you're small!!!

    Most condoms you buy, unless you specifically buy condoms for larger members, are designed to fit most males.

    What I'd do is pick up some regular condoms and try one on by yourself. Make sure you're fully erect and try it. I bet you're fine. Gas stations usually sell three packs, or if you're especially lucky, your gas station or bowling alley may have one of those cliche condom machines in the bathroom that only charges $0.75.

    I bet you're fine. Don't sweat it and have fun!
     
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    If you watch porn, then those guys are very much bigger than average. If you wrap some string around the mid-point of your erect penis and then straighten it and measure it, average will be 5". Use this measure to work out what sized condom to buy, as too small and too tight reduces sensation and make cause difficulties maintaining your erection.
     
  6. Curtis

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    Thanks for the replies dudes. I have no problem admitting I'm small, nor do I worry about becasue, hey, I can't change it anyway. For me and my GF, its really more about the intimacy and feeling of closeness to eachother than the physical feeling when we fool around. I'll try out everyone's suggestions.
     
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    I like the way you think, Curtis. That's rather refreshing, because unfortunately, not all guys have a positive outlook like that.
     
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    That's fantastic and refreshing to hear Curtis. When it comes down to it, the best sex is about that shared intimacy and connection.

    In terms of the physical side...it is most definitely more about how well you use it. :D
     
  9. Curtis

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    Ok guys, thanks for the advice. But now I'm having another problem. We talked about it tonight, and she's insisting that I "pop her cherry" first, before we have sex.

    I have fingered her before and she uses tampons, but she is really tight. I mean, it took a solid two months to get her used to even my finger inside her.

    I was a bit confused, becasue all my (guy) friends have told me that the cherry popin was done on the virginity loosin night, when I first enter her. And almost everything I've heard and read corroborates that. But she said all of her friends told her the opposite, that its done before. She also said she doesn't want the added pain.

    So my questions:
    Who is more right?
    If I'm right, how do I tell her? (She was getting a lil pissed at me ;) )
    If she's right, how would I pop her cherry manually?
     
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    What she said. Also, kudos on doubling up on birth control! Your girlfriend is a lucky lady.
     
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    What, what? I always thought cherry popping meant to lose your virginity to someone??
     
  12. Barbwire

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    Her hymen is probably already torn if she's been using tampons. Also, a hymen has nothing to due with how "tight" a girl is.
     
  13. Curtis

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    I mean cherry poping as in the actual breaking of the hymen. She says he had never bled after fingering or tampons (that sounds weird), but I think some girls don't bleed when they tear their hymen? I'm probably wrong tho.
     
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    If She uses a tampon she has already lost her hymen.
    But to clear up some confusion on the matter most Women lose ther hymen
    naturally and don't need to be broken in.
    Also Cherry Popping has absolutely nothing to do with the hymen
    The first Guy to have sex with gets her cherry regardless of
    whether She has an intact hymen .

    Hiker