where does a girl like to be touched?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Pointman, Jan 3, 2011.

  1. Pointman

    Pointman New Member

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    Sorry, i just have so many questions in my mind right now, and the topic kinda says it all.

    I wanna make her moan and wet :phat where can i go with my fingers, lips and tongue? i'll do anything if she'll let me
     
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    Depends on the woman. Gave my wife a full body massage last night and by the time I was done, she was on top of me ripping my dick off.....not that I'm complaining. Back of the knee is supposed to be a hot spot. Experiment. If she doesn't yell at you or punch you in the head....keep going.
     
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    i heard the back of the knee part thing, not sure how that works though. Thing is, i'm not sure she'll tell me if she doesn't enjoy it. If she outright dislikes it then maybe she'lll gesture, but i don't want to focus on something she's not going to enjoy right?

    I ahve to give that full body massage thing a try one day, we just don't have enough time with each other for that. i live an hour and a half away from her, and our working shifts keep changing....
     
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    Dude, no one can tell you what this particular woman will definately find pleasurable. If you don't have that level of communication yet, you better get there fast or move on. Honest communication is the only thing that will move a relationship forward, without it, you're dead in the water, beating a dead horse, etc. Something freaky like peeing on eachother you might want to ease into, but as far as if she finds touching certain areas pleasureable or not should be a no brainer.
     
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    watch and listen to her.. she'll tell you what she is enjoying

    I LOVE having my back/spine kissed and licked on =)
     
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    :tup it is watch ask and LISTEN....Listen is the most important part
     
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    Every woman I've been with has been very different. Some like their necks kissed and some find it too ticklish.... You have to explore and have fun and listen to her body and what its telling you.
     
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    The best asset to your sex life that you have is your tongue. . . use it. . . and start talking. ;)

    Ask her what she likes. Chances are, she may know some things, but by experimenting you two may learn new things that she likes together. Ask her what she wants you to do - if she wants to be kissed, licked, nibbled on, bitten, and if so, where!

    Edit: Some of the common places women like to be touched are the ears, neck, back, shoulders, breasts, inner thighs, etc. What each of like varies, however.
     
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    All the spots Stefanie wrote in her edit I agree with! I'd also like to add I love being softly stroked just below the bellybutton and above my lady parts as well as along my lower back. I also love the way my man's hands feel when he's playing with my hair!
     
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    i like being touched pretty much...anywhere, but legs are always a winner, thighs and hips, lower back, as well as my butt.

    i like to be kissed on my neck, my collarbone area, and shoulders.
     
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    Listen to your lady...I like to be bitten on the back of my neck. Takes me almost to orgasm.
     
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    stefanie is on the money. most women are happy to answer. you just have to ask. and all of us like different things. i love the insides of my thighs to be carressed and licked. my neck is quite sensitive, as is the curve of my back. and, yes, oral stimulation on those other parts (wink) makes me quite happy.