Where do you look - hj/bj?

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  1. HotForHoney

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    When you are giving a hand job/blow job, where do you look?
    Where do you want the giver to look?

    I was working diesel the other night, looking at him. He told me to stop (like why are you looking at me way, not a dom/sub way). I like seeing his reactions/faces. Looking at his dick doesn't do much - I mean I like it but it just there. His face has expression
     
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    Into the eyes ;) or to the feet.

    #TeamDSG
     
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    She looks at me, kissing, watching my reactions.
    Also she looks at it, seeing the precum and she gets excited seeing the result from what she is doing a good job.
    Even though she wants to look at me when I ejaculate, she also wants to see it squirt out.
     
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    Eye contact makes everything much more intense for me
     
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    Eye contact is very hot but I also love to watch my cock going in and out....so I guess my answer is all ways just change it up.
     
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    the 1st post with my GF in it


    I think she is looking at what she is doing holl xxxx 197.JPG
     
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    I can see if you are standing and she's kneeling, looking at it to give him a bj

    I guess this was more laying side by side with more handjob than blowjob
     
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    Oh yes she is!!! Very nice :)
     
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    Oh, side by side? I look into his face. I wink and smile and coo. I say dirty things to him. I kiss him and make him feel my hot breath. My hand just has to work by feel.
     
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    You're good ;)
     
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    That could work! Thanks
     
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    I enjoy the kissing a lot, but when getting a nice HJ I prefer not to kiss, it's distracting when things become more intense.
    I once lost it because of too much smooching, too passionately in her kissing.
    She wants to kiss in the heat of the moment but the breathing makes it difficult. Now she does more watching, she wants results :)
     
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    Yes. I kiss him on his cheek, his forehead, around his face, and so on, more than on his mouth.
     
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    I like eye contact and kissing but sometimes its nice for her to really concentrate on my cock and balls. It makes me feel good to know that she's really into it. Kind of like "worshipping" my stuff.
     
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    I'm not a staring at his face/eye's kind of gal, nor does he care for it or wish for it either. So :cool: on that.
    I am more the type like @whybother 's girl is. And I could just hear L2BK agreeing with "whyb" on his last 2 sentences. I guess you could say "I'm all about that Cock (& Balls) - no treble" ;) :p :D
     
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    It depends on the positioning, but in general my eyes are closed or I'm focused on what I'm doing. Intermittent eye contact and smiles/grins/smirks.
     
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    Depends on the girl. There's a non quantitative quality some girls have, for their eyes to literally exude sexuality. I don't think it can be learned, but the few times I've come across one of them I had to look away to keep from cumming prematurely. Most girls I've come across, gf included can look wherever, and it doesn't really matter.
     
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    Diesel wants me to have that kind of look.
     
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    You have to use a mirror and practice the look ;)

    In my experience most like looking at the ejaculation when giving a HJ.
    It varies for a BJ. Some are busy pleasing, some want to look at a guy's face. One would always look up me when giving her amazing BJs.
    She would give edging and look at me when she stopped. I could see she got off on seeing how good she did it to me, sometimes looking at the pulsating cock. Another one was very into taking it out to look at it "jump" and see some precum or small amount of semen.
    In most cases it was always in amusement and pleased with themselves, happy to please.
     
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    I think I look up at him for approval.
     
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