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Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by pbs, Nov 1, 2013.
When she comes, who makes it happen?
Well at this point my lady doesn't masturbate so during sex , whoever is in charge has to try and make it happen , pretty much only happens now adays with penetration and grinding. Thrusting does not do it.
Not really full options offered so went for closest "it just kind of happen" which of course it does but not without both parties dancing the tango to the same tune.
My wife of 45 years says she has never masturbated in her life. She also says she cannot remember an instance where she didn't cum at least once. I guess the third answer is correct for us.
Only one woman I ever dated was able to cum without me taking the lead to make her cum.
I can only speak for my relationship with my husband but we both contribute to it at different times and sometimes it is him and his mouth or fingers or penis and other times it is me with my fingers or sometimes a toy. I think having all the options open is a good thing. And I am amazed that other women dont masturbate. Wow!
Kind of the same here. I only know of one time she masturbated (next to me in bed when I had not satisfied her)
Usually me, by rubbing her clit during sex or giving her oral.
I make her cum
I ALWAYS! take the time and make sure the woman I am with get all the pleasure that she needs and comes as many times as she wants and can before I get myself come.This is a ALWAYS!! with me.
I usually have to make her cum with my mouth. For some reason she can't cum with just penetration. She likes it but she won't cum.
This is making me think about how her hips thrust when she's cumming. I may have to wake her up.