I have a question for both genders. When you masturbate and start to cum, what sort of motion or stimulation do you prefer while you're orgasming? Do you speed up, slow down, or keep the same pace? Or do you stop stimulating yourself and let the orgasm take over? For me, I have always stroked until I just start to cum, and then I stop moving and hold my hand completely still while I ejaculate. My new girlfriend recently found this out during a handjob, and thought it was strange. She said she's never known of anyone who doesn't want to be stimulated during their orgasm, and that all of her previous partners needed to be stroked throughout their ejaculation. I know that she needs me to keep going during her orgasm as well, or it kind of stops in the middle. So that got me wondering about what most people prefer, and whether I really am in the minority!