[Ask a Girl] When you are receiving oral sex..

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  1. heelover

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    Ladies, when you are receiving oral sex do you prefer to be fingered and if so does more than one finger help or not ?? And I assume you like the finger to rub your g spot vs just being fingered ?? It can be a tricky manuever.
     
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    No. I like my men to to the minimum work required. Save your finger strength.
     
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    I like the boyfriend to hold my thighs when he is giving me oral. Oral is so beautiful and intimate; I don't want it mixed up with anything else.
     
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    I am not a guy but my 2 cents here.
    I find not all women are alike, again. Also there is a lot more than just the g-spot inside, in addition to the outside, not just the clit by the way. Compare to your own parts, you have a shaft, balls, head, all enjoying attention. There is a lot to explore to a woman.
     
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    I prefer he just use his tongue and lips only. His hands and fingers can caress my breasts and stomach :)
     
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    I like the tongue and lips licking and sucking on me,
    like his hands to pinch my nipples and play with my ass,no fingers inside of me
     
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    I love when he slides a finger or two into my pussy as he's going to town on my clit and lips! Intensifies the orgasm.
     
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    Ok, now you're just teasing us....So damn naughty!!!;):D
     
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    It depends on what I'm in the mood for....so, I just tell him.
    Sometimes fingers inside, sometimes not.
    Sometimes a finger in my ass greatly intensifies orgasms too...
     
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    I actually don't like being fingered at all, so I only let them use their mouths. If he knows what he's doing, that's all he needs to use with me ;)
     
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    Agreed!;)
     
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    I do like being fingered, actually i prefer it to oral but I do enjoy being licked as well. If someone is going down on me, I like hands involved too.
     
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    Oh my.....mmmmmm
     
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    Depends really - just as men would not wish a blowjob to be identical every time.

    Sometimes I want hands on my thighs or boobs & just a tongue being used. I like a long slow build up to orgasm where the build up is almost the best part. Other times I love being fingered at the same time. It makes me cum much more quickly & is more intense.

    Ask - or be guided my her moans, her comments to you or learning how her body reacts.
     
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    Once again this shows that preferences vary a lot and one size (pun) does not necessarily fits all ;)
     
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    I do like to be fingered but its better with some tongue action.
     
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    All good notes i will make sure to save them in my notebook :)
     
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    No fingers, just tongue.
     
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    Yes, a lot of the time, its hard to get off with just clit play. I need the extra stimulation, and when he rubs my gspot while he's licking my clit, i tend to... make a mess.