[Ask a Guy] When you are cumming?

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  1. Teresa1214

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    Guys...when you are cumming, do you slow down or speed up and thrust deeper?
     
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    Most would speed up and go deeper I'd say......but everybody's different so there's always going to be exceptions to the rule I guess....:eyes
    I mean....some partners Ive been with like to have me go slow so they can actually "feel" me coming......others just like to have their brains banged out because it takes them to the edge as well?
    Its one of those things that lovers get to know just how their partner likes it...:D
     
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    My wife likes it harder and I am OK with that.
     
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    I sometimes speed up and sometimes slow down, but always go deeper.
     
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    Do you think it is just instinct that makes a man want to go deeper inside a woman when he is cumming?
     
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    I know it feels natural to me.
     
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    So which do you prefer??
     
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    I prefer harder and deeper. I usually have a huge orgasm then.
     
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    I don't know about instinct, but for me it just feels much better.
     
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    I think it's a bit of a reflex action that the pelvis is pushed forward when I'm cumming. It makes biological sense too.
     
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    I pump harder and deeper!
    Also my partners prefer!
     
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    Bf slows down. I wish he went deeper/faster.
     
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    Harder faster & deeper :)
     
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    Me too come to think of it. Sometimes i speed it up and other times a nice slow on feels good. If i pull out it i go slow so i can see how far it flies
     
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    The boyfriend slows down and pumps deep and hard.

    He says it's beyond instinct. His body just does it, combined with "a wave of overpowering desire" and "a primal urge to push my way into a deep, dark place." Calling Dr. Freud...
     
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    I like a guy to go deep before he cums. Speeding up or down varies depending on the circumstances. Sometimes my hubby slows down to let me catch up lol
     
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    Deeper and Harder but that is what might have cause the cumming in the first place. :)
     
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    I think it goes back to procreation. A man planting his seed as deep in a woman as possible.
     
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    most of the time i speed up and go deeper and longer movement - but again it depends on the position and comfort
     
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    Always deep, but she likes for me stop at that moment so she can feel the "shooting"