when tossing off...

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  1. allgirlschool

    allgirlschool New Member

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    i doubt the girls would be interested in this, but you are welcome to comment, if you are not in a relationship and you are in the mood for tossing off, do you think its better to do it while thinking about someone, or do it while looking at porn?
     
  2. HardRocker

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    I learned how to do it before the advent of porn, and I have to say my imagination was pretty damn good. It took longer because I had to play out an imaginary sex scene in my head. But it was really more like fucking because I had to imagine all of the sensations of whatever I was doing, like looking in her eyes while feeling her tight pussy gripping my dick, and nibbling on her neck... and so on. It could get complex.

    So, put me down for imagination. However, I'm sorry to report, I usually take the easy way out these days.
     
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    I would also go with the imagination method. I feel it can be more personal, intimate and powerful. That said, using porn is good to help stimulate that imagination.:cool
     
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    The way you worded your question, it seems you think that masturbating if mostly for men that aren't in relationships. Well, let me tell ya, you couldn't be further from the truth.

    I'm married and I do it quite a bit. I NEVER fantasize about my husband while I'm doing it. How boring would that be? :lol I also watch porn to get off, or read erotica.

    They all work just as well for me. Like HR, the I like to fantasize, but porn makes it easier for a quickie.
     
  5. Bubblez

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    Girls do it a lot more than guys realize:phat. I don't do it as much as I used to, but sometimes you just get the urge haha:p

    I don't think it has anything to do with being unhappy in a relationship, but thinking about someone random is fun..
     
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    Ditto Bubblez. And only ever with good erotica and/or fantasising about someone I'm attracted to.
     
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  8. biker061

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    seems that makes no difference if i'm watching porn/pix or reading erotica (i also write a bit) i usually finish with my eyes closed thinking about mrsbikers tits! :boobs
     
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    Yeah i agree,thinking about someone random is fun,how dull would it be fantasising about the same person all the time.
     
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    Imagination. I am mid thirties and have to say I now find porn a little tedious and repetitious. I have a private selection of photographs of my girl to turn to in her absence. And as it happens, she is a peach bent over. He he.
     
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    For me i just concentrate on the feeling, not people. I just kind of gawk at porn, it doesn't really get my going usually...