When mastabating becomes addictive

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  1. matt34

    matt34 New Member

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    I used to wank a lot through my teens and still do on occasion but sometimes i can`t stop, i get the urge to wank again, i think it`s that sensation you get when you climax that`s the addictive part, i now have to will myself not to do it, if not i`d be wanking 20 to 30 times a day, sometimes i can go 3 months without and then the urge comes back again and i`m wanking again, feel disgusted with myself and stop again. has anyone else had the same problem.
     
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    wanking it healthy. keep on keepin on
     
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    There was a time when I was about 17 that I masturbated 4 times a day regularly for a few months. Personally I think if your not having sex you should be masturbating. If you don't all that testosterone makes you stupid and I know from experience guys can think and do some VERY dumb things when they get too horny.
     
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    I usually wank 1 to 2 times a day. I have to moderate a bit, though, because I don't use any lube and it can get chaffed and raw sometimes. Not sure if its addictive or not, but unless its a problem, i.e. your masturbating at inappropriate times, I'd say its not a problem.
     
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    Hahaha, sometimes I will jerk it 3, 4, even 5 times in a row. I just look at it as practice to impress the ladies. Also, sexual activity (masturbation included) actually increases testosterone in the long run. The levels drop for a few hours but the process of replacing the soldiers actually makes the overall level go up.
     
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    I often wonder if I'm addicted to masturbating, or the thoughts that come along with it. Maybe even porn also? Probably everything above.
     
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    I have a very healthy sexdrive...i rarely watch porn, but i do play five knickle shuffle a lot..
     
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    nope its fun, feels good.. id keep going XP
     
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    yea actually I'll stop for months at a time then start up and do it almost everyday for a few months. but i haven't done it in a week or so but I've let my girl try.. that hasn't had too much luck though, i can't get off to it lol
     
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    I often do the same , every day for while and then not at all for a while.
    I just figured it because of the on/off with wife. your no need to when shes doing it, then she stops and it up to me. but I do enjoy it.
     
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    A few weeks ago, I thought I'd see how long I could go without a self love session! I didn't last 24 hours!!!!
     
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    I used to do it about once a day, but I cut down to a couple times a week. At least we don't have to go pay money to some thug for the high we get! Haha.

    I like how much longer I can last if I take time between "sessions" but I don't really like the increased clean up, haha.
     
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    Seems to do a body good, Keep it up.

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    I never realized masturbation could be addicting. When I was a teen, I always jerked off.
     
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    When you are doing it in unusual places, or too often -- it is a sign. For example, if you are wanking in the church restroom, or more than 20 times, it is a problem! :lol
     
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    He is talking about up to 30 times a day and he is 34 years old. Periods of abstinence followed by over indulgence. Sounds like addiction to me. In most large cities there is a group called Sex Addicts Anonymous or SAA. It is a program based on AA that works well for many. A lot of treatment centers treat SA. Things like this don't get better on their one. There are people that are willing and able to help. Good luck. Most alcohol treatment centers could give info on SAA.
     
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    i have gotten to 6 about three different times. my arm is ready to fall off afterwards but it feels so good.

    usually 2-4 per session is my norm.
     
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    Keep yourself busy or force yourself to do other activities. Anything in excess is bad.
     
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    I think you know you're addicted when you don't feel pleasure anymore from it you just do it because you have this feeling that you have to