When girls are too much over you and you cant get on their level anymore

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  1. chriiss

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    I can't deal with the fact that i didnt have normal youth like most of the students. Sex, party, travelling. I alived almost nothing until now. I had 6 one night stands and last month one fuckfriend for a month, but i dont see the point of meeting her anymore, because she will be always over me. I dont see point of dating any other girls (i could), because they will be always over me, because of those normal things they alived in the most importand years of life (16-26). I am now 29 and have alived only so much like an average 17 year old maybe. I can't be in company of young people, because all i think of are those things. How they enjoy their youth and i didnt. And there is nothing i can't do now. All those cute girls on street have regular sex and get orgasms and do basic things we see in porn. How can i be on their level? There is no way out... they enjoyed youth, i didnt...game over :(

    I dont have motivation for anything, because of my unequality, which will be there forever.
    How can i be equal to a girl that had regular sex since 18 and i had it only maybe 20 times? She will be always over me because of that, because she did it in the prime years of the life. Some have it 5 times a day sometime in their youth.

    Sex in the present and future doesnt mean nothing, if others already won the game of life (this means enjoying youth like media tells you).
     
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    Your outlook on life is so negative that you need professional help. You are still relatively young and have the potential to live another 40-50 years. Those can be happy years when you have a positive outlook. It doesn't matter how many other guys a lady has fucked, as long as she wants to have sex with you. Concentrate on her and not yourself. See how many times you can make her cum and she will appreciate you.
     
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    #3 Barent, May 19, 2016
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    don't know what you want people to say,
    if you see no point in doing anything then don't do it.
    sounds to me your just feeling sorry for yourself,
    only you can decide what's best for you,do whatever makes you happy
     
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    if it would not matter how many guys women fucked, she would have not fucked them. She does it, because she wanna experience things and its good so. I didnt, so i can never again be on her level :( Years from 30 on are not important. Important are years from 16-25, where you look good, where women have fresh skin and so on... Everybody can do things at 30, at 20 only the biggest people and beautiful girls.
     
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    Dang, now you've got ME depressed! I had another GREAT sex session with my 57 year old wife this morning. Now I realize that since I wasn't her first lover, and she is after all 57 (as I am also) and her skin isn't as taught as it was when she was 16, it really wasn't that great of sex. She was probably at a much higher sexual level than I was, and despite cumming at least half a dozen times and one gushing orgasm, she was probably very dissapointed in my feeble attempt to satisfy her burning sexual desire. She tried to sooth my tender ego several times by telling me how good our lovemaking was, but I realize you are right. I'm no match for her. I think I'll just spend my remaining years having meaningless, passionate less, miserable solo sex since she and every other female is out of my league. I suggest you do the same. Thank you for helping me see the light!
     
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    dude, you totally miss the point of living life for the moment. We can't change the past, can only hope to influence our future yet still can't see what's coming next .You need to learn to seize the day, enjoy life for what it is now. Do you assume that every girl has had a full on sexual life before potentially meeting you? are you really that alone in having a sheltered, slow exposure to the thrills of adulthood and hedonistic ways? or have you bought the media bullshit like they want you too? Think for yourself dude, don't judge your life by the standards and bullshit the media sells you, are you bought that easy? Stand up be a man, grow some balls, you will in time look back and wonder why you wasted so much time worrying and not just living, believe me.
     
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    Troll Alert....Troll Alert....Troll Alert......

    This guy has heard it all 100X, over and over. Don't waste your time trying to enlighten him, it won't work.
     
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    Living for the moment means lying to yourself that you are worth the same as others. Is as if you are broke and you say you can afford the same things as millionaire. Its stupid and lying to yourself.

    We can compare this with food. How did you have the same from life as others, if they eaten all the great food in their lifes and you only rice all time time? Its clear they had much more from life. But person who have eaten all this great food don't know to appriciate it. It's the same with sex and people who had it in youth.

    I missed the key things of life and not even sex that i can have now cant take those facts away. For me this is a bigger sin as if i would have murderer somebody and i can never deal with it. Women will be always over me because of all the orgasms they had. I have a roomate and i heare he had sex today, she was loud. A normal young women was doing the same things as porn girls. It prooves this is biggest joy in life and there is nothing better then this, if even normal quiet girls are doing the same things. And they beside the great life they have, they also enjoy sex. Perfect life that i never had and how can i be on level of those girls? I can't :(
     
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    you are destined for disappointment, there is no help for you, good luck on your path
     
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    Yes, but this is a consequence of mistakes from past, which you can't fix :( Time has gone. I have stayed on the back, women have gone forward then and the race is over :(
     
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    This guy post the same things over and over on more than one site. I hate to be a cynic, but really.

    He doesn't even bother to change the words now. He just copies and paste.
     
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    g'day guy i have been reading some of the posts here and this bloke is just wasting our time and energy the more i read this fools posts the dumber i feel i think we need to just ignore this ass and hopefully admin or moderator will terminate this user but i could be wrong as i am new to forums
     
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    You cant change the truth and facts. You can only lie to yourself, but i am not like this, i am objective realist.
     
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    that's not true,you have motivation to keep posting the same thing over and over and over and over and over again
     
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    I was now in the city alone on saturday night. All people are out there in groups, young girls cheerful, joyful, enjoying life and i didnt have this. All the time home i needed to cry, i cant take this pain anymore, seeing girls all the time. They look at me and smile and i cant talk with them, i dont have talent for this game and have nothing to talk about from my empty life. The only solution is dead. Facts are clear, i see it with my own eyes...people are enjoying youth and they do this regulary. I didnt have nothing [​IMG] It hurts too much to continue living....