To ask a girl or a guy out. I mean i used to always want to get to know the girl which means becoming decent friends at least first. But it seems that when i do that the girl if she wanted me to ask. Kind of gets tired of waiting or bored of me. I have never just been able to be friends with a girl. Im not quite sure why. Like i can be friends but not good friends. Like it seems to me that the girl wants me to rush in and ask her like after just a week of knowing her or sumthing. Which i guess i could do but it just seems stupid. I cant count how many girls ive lost because of this. Because apparently i wait to long. I see people all the time which know each other for like a week or 2 and then start going out. And a lot of people actually seem to last a decent amount of time. So when to most people usually find it best to do so?