When do you think is the right time

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  1. Pride

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    To ask a girl or a guy out.

    I mean i used to always want to get to know the girl which means becoming decent friends at least first. But it seems that when i do that the girl if she wanted me to ask. Kind of gets tired of waiting or bored of me. I have never just been able to be friends with a girl. Im not quite sure why. Like i can be friends but not good friends.

    Like it seems to me that the girl wants me to rush in and ask her like after just a week of knowing her or sumthing. Which i guess i could do but it just seems stupid.

    I cant count how many girls ive lost because of this. Because apparently i wait to long. I see people all the time which know each other for like a week or 2 and then start going out. And a lot of people actually seem to last a decent amount of time.


    So when to most people usually find it best to do so?
     
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    I find that if someone pushes me into something, it scares me away. Believe it or not, there are some women who appreciate men who take things slow, and don't rush.
     
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    Yeah...A lot of girls say that they dont want to go out with a "friend" though. I mean im not one to just rush either. But i kinda feel that i should start speeding things up when i meet a girl that i kinda of like.

    My thing is if i hang out with a girl once then usually i know if i think id like a relationship with her or not. Like i guess i can get attached kind of fast....not like buggy but just that feeling....