When do you feel closest to your partner? 1. When we truly communicate. 2. When we are affectionate. (Non-sexual) 3. When we make love. 4. When we spend quality time together. 5. When we cuddle in bed at night and talk. 6. When they are there for me when I need them to be. 7. Whenever we are near each other. 8. When they say I love you. 9. When we share a special moment together. 10. All the time.