When did you loose your virginity?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by ninja08hippie, Dec 18, 2007.

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Age when you lost your virginity

  1. < 15

    13 vote(s)
    14.9%
  2. 15

    10 vote(s)
    11.5%
  3. 16

    18 vote(s)
    20.7%
  4. 17

    10 vote(s)
    11.5%
  5. 18

    11 vote(s)
    12.6%
  6. 19

    11 vote(s)
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  7. 20

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  8. 21

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  9. >21

    6 vote(s)
    6.9%
  10. Still a virgin (then why are you answering? :P)

    1 vote(s)
    1.1%
  1. ninja08hippie

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    I searched the forum cause I was curious and I guess this has never been asked before. I always thought the average age was 17ish, but it seems teenagers are getting sluttier since I know people younger than that who weren't virgins.

    I was 17.
     
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    I was 17...lost it to a guy I continued to date for a year and a half.
    couldnt have been a better situation and no regrets whatsoever =]
     
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    I had just turned 17. My boyfriend was 16 at the time.

    We're still together. :)
     
  4. Dreama

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    First of all, I know that in my year + of being here, I've seen this topic. But, I don't think people are getting sluttier. I think that's a really derogatory thing to say. I lost my virginity at 13, and I am most certainly not a slut. So, perhaps think before you use a term like that in regards to other people. Thanks. :)
     
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    I was young... By the time I hit 17 I was already saving all my pennies for affordable escorts. :dgrin
     
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    I agree! To me, when I hear that a 13 year old has lost their virginity, I don't think "slut!" - who does? How does that make someone a slut? I worry that they're so awfully young and perhaps naive about sex in general, but I'm not seeing where the slut issue comes into play.
     
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    15.

    Very nice :)
     
  8. Dreama

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    Yeah, and I was very naive. I didn't know, at that point, that having sex with someone didn't mean you would be with them forever. I thought that was just what I was supposed to do. After that relationship, I didn't have sex for another four years.
     
  9. cook74

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    Totally agree with you there Dreama. Many young girls and guys lost their virginity at an early age when I was growing up too, it doesn't make them slutty. I'm not saying it's a good or a bad thing, that they lost their virginity so young, I just don't think you could label that kind of behavior as slutty.
     
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    I was 18 and I really wished I had waited. Was just the wrong time, wrong person. Oh well.
     
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    19, then married her. Lasted 14 years.
     
  12. ninja08hippie

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    I'm sorry. Maybe it's a regional or generational thing, but I just mean slutty as a willingness to have sex. My friends and I use the term a lot and (depending on how it's used of course) doesn't have to be derogatory. I didn't mean to offend anyone, I'll change the wording.

    Looks like I can't edit it. Here's wrestling as an apology to those I offended :( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufFT2BWh3BQ&e
     
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    I was 18 and he was 28. I wish i had waited longer as i don't think i was really ready for it.
     
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    I was 13...

    ...as was she and absolutely clueless, both of us. It was not romantic. It is not a fond memory. It was awkward. I had on a condom and kept probing and trying to get it to go in, never really succeeding. Finally, this thing started happening, this spurting sensation. I hadn't even started jerking off yet, so, again, when I say clueless...

    The best that can be said of it is that it made me understand how nature succeeds; it just happens mindlessly.
     
  15. Dreama

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    It's alright. I knew you probably didn't mean it like that, but do be careful about how you use words like that. It's cool :)
     
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    Same.
     
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    I waited until I was 24. I dated a few girls when I was 21 or 22, but I wanted to hold on until I found someone special. I lost my virginity on our 6 month anniversary and we got married on our 4th anniversary. Everything worked out great and I couldn't be happier.
     
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    I was 13 and he was really good at it :). He had the most amazing body lol. but it didnt last long and i didnt do it again with anyone else for a real long time.
     
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    I was 18. I wanted to lose it earlier...:)
     
  20. dazed-confused

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    as someone who just finished high school, I'd say that infact teenagers are becoming more promiscuous. The stories I used to hear (and sort of still do) on a day-to-day basis really make me wonder what I missed out on back then. I swear, every good looking girl with a 'hot' body had been de-virginized by age 16.