when did self recording sex became so popular?

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  1. the_traveler

    the_traveler New Member

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    my porn taste is for vids when actuall folks take them, meaning if i see man a woman and the camera is moving that means it can't be real, where real is when they didn't get paid to do it.
    that always turned me on, even when i realized i won't be able to actuallly do sex . but how is it possible that so many people are camming and sending them to websites?
     
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    this has always turned me on too, the real video's not the "reality".....i have no idea when it became popular, but my lady and i have been recording our selfs since the beginning. but i dont know maybe it became popuar after the pamela anderson or paris hilton's tapes were released, maybe people were hoping to be "discovered" and make big bucks for their tapes..
     
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    I've always found I tend to enjoy well done videos of "real" couples more than standard porn, simply because the 2 people involved are usually a couple, are really enjoying it, and they aren't the "perfect" airbrushed faked titted, giant cocked porn actors. Just turns me on more and is more interesting to watch overall.
     
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    +1!!
     
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    I agree with everyone else here - the "amateur" stuff has much more appeal, (despite the lesser-quality lighting, humming audio, and lack of changing camera angles), because it seems more genuine than staged.

    What's worst of all about the "professional" stuff is bad acting within an over-contrived plot line (for example, when the woman walks in on a guy masturbating, and tries to pretend she's shocked and upset).
     
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    agreed, i used to watch a lot "party" video's like college fuck fest , till i understood they were fake as well.
    the pro stuff, looks real as model on bill board. it's embressing to watch.
    still even the amatuer guys look a whole lot better then me.. :(, there was a time i dropped 90 pounds by convincing my self babes will give me a time a day, i knew then it was an illlusion but now, after i gained 40 pounds back, i really don't care. beyond looks you need to be a person. i hate being split lick that.
    i do like it when they laugh or talk to each other, even more like when i see her expressions, (like the site beautiful agony).
     
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    Once technology evolved to the point of making home recordings inexpensive, home sex films began booming. In addition, once folks saw the repercussions being reduced if one was found making them, that also added a boost. One also sees more and more relationship experts saying that it can be a good thing to spice up one's sex life, if both parties are in agreement. Finally, there are enough couples with exhibitionist attitudes and/or egos that they are willing to share them... and with so many different outlets to share, the odds of someone you know in real life coming across them are more and more remote (if a couple chooses to go down that path).

    In our experience, when we started doing this for our own private enjoyment in the mid 90's we did not know of any of our friends who were doing this. Now, according to my wife, she can think of 6-10 of her friends who have joked about dong this in private themselves.
     
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    repercussions? how bad were they?and how long ago?
     
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    One example - it used to be if nude pictures or explicit photos because public, that person would receive a lot of social repercussions such as the loss of a ojb, reduced work opportunities (e.g. an actress doing a nude scene was the "kiss of death" for her career) and a lot of social disgrace. Think about what happened to Vanessa Williams 25 or so years ago when she was stripped of her crown after nude photos of her came out.

    However, these days, the same level of reaction doesn't happen. Unless you are cheating on your spouse, their is rarely a storm and things usually pass quickly. One could say that someone like Kim Kardashian became famous because of a sex tape. The coach of the New York Jets and his wife, Rex and Michelle Ryan, really aren't facing much more than a few jokes about their foot fetish video and her pictures - the general reaction so far has been "it is not legal, they are married and it is with each other, what's the big deal?"