[Ask a Girl] when a guy comes does that sometimes satisfy a girl

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  1. etaf

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    I have noticed that when a guy comes inside/on a girl , the girl appears to sometimes appear to have completed and had enough, even if she has not had an orgasm before or during

    does the act of a guy coming have some sort of mental finish for a girl sometimes

    probably not making myself to clear ?
     
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    No..When a guy cums..he is done..get out!!!! xo
     
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    If he's done and I'm not... Finish with your fingers, mouth or toys.
     
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    If he doesn't help you finish, he's a fool
     
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    If I finish before her I'll do whatever it takes to help her finish too
     
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    interesting , thanks
     
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    When the boyfriend and I were new at this, and I made him cum, I got a huge feeling of satisfaction, even if I hadn't cum yet. Sometimes it was so satisfying that I didn't want to go on and do things that would help me cum too--I was ready for the afterward phase.
     
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    "When the boyfriend and I were new at this, and I made him cum, I got a huge feeling of satisfaction, even if I hadn't cum yet. Sometimes it was so satisfying that I didn't want to go on and do things that would help me cum too--I was ready for the afterward phase."

    Thanks , that's what I have noticed , and was wondering about , some form of physiological response.
     
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    Of course you need to help her get full satisfaction as she would do for you, you don't just empty your sack and leave it at that and if you do finish before her or vice versa you need to help her as any gentleman would.
     
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    I meant emotional satisfaction. No, I wouldn't say it was a physiological type of satisfaction as if I'd had an orgasm or something. But the emotional satisfaction included a physical relaxation and comfort. It was very pleasant.
     
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    Put it another way you''ll know if she wants to continue or not , now if you don't oblige you're a selfish idiot in my book. But obviously she may want to stop for the time being and feel satisfied as one or two have mentioned its possible.
     
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    As i said, i noticed that, does not want to continue and satisfied as mentioned by "Meee"

    "I meant emotional satisfaction. No, I wouldn't say it was a physiological type of satisfaction as if I'd had an orgasm or something. But the emotional satisfaction included a physical relaxation and comfort. It was very pleasant."

    exactly - Thanks for that , just wanted a girls view , its nothing to do with not "finishing" her or wanting to, or being a gentleman! - ITS as "Meee" has replied , an observation

    cheers
     
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    As I always say.. It's all about communication.. Why not just ask her? Sluttyfairy will just tell me.. "I don't think I can get off right now"..(sometimes early in morning she just wont orgasm)...that way I know that when I cum, we're finished...
    I guess I'm a little off topic, but just ask her. Then you'll know for sure
     
  14. Alwayslearningsex

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    I would choose you over Candela LOL for when I am still hard after I am done, to continue.
     
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    It seems to be based on the ejaculation, to have satisfied a man, I feel like it is a factor, sometimes it took more work for me to orgasm and even if the woman orgasmed a few times, or even once, she worked hard at doing something for me, a goal.
     
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    Ah, but then there are times when ejaculation occurs but I am still not satisfied. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has that happen every once in awhile.
     
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    Agreed on this, it's not only about the "finish". OFten wanting more even after unless the thing was just to please me with a treat.
     
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    I'd say this is true with some women. I've had partners that always seemed to be satisfied, as long as I came inside her, or she swallowed my load. Many of these same women seemed to want more any time I did not. I have also known many that my orgasm would trigger theirs. One in particular would cum, just by giving me a bj. The first time she did this, I offered to return the favor, but she said "I already did when you did".

    I think maybe because many of us are wired to find our own pleasure in seeing our partner satisfied. I'm one of those people.

    xx
     
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    Maybe a little old fashioned isn't a bad idea in the sack. I remember "...ladies first."
     
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    Chivalry is mostly still appreciated and often allows for a return visit ;)
    Having said that I have been turned down offering my seat to a woman on a crowded train and also being told "I can open doors myself thank very much!"
    WTF?
     
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