[Ask a Girl] Whats your ideal size

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  1. r1rider6686

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    I wanted to get some womens opinions on what their ideal cock size is. Is it lenght, girth or firmness that gets your pussy wet?
     
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    well, i'm taller so my vaginal canal is longer so 5.5-6 inches is nice...but too long and he hits my cervix (major ouch), some "girth" is good (friction and all that), but really its not the penis but how he uses it ;)
     
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    And for the record, it's how the guy uses it that makes my pussy wet. You can have an 8 inch member but not know how to use it and it become a weapon.
     
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    definitely agree :D I do prefer girth to length because with girth there's always some stretchability to accommodate - length.. well in some positions even smaller guys hurt! after 2 years of minimal sex, I went from easily accommodating 9" to wincing at 6" ;) my man's a bit bigger than that and sometimes I have to tell him "easy" or we have to change positions when he's thrusting harder


    so true :D
     
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    I was just askin, not saying im worried about being less than average. More of a poll question.
     
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    its all about girth!
     
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    Big enough to find it without pepper, tweezers and a magnifying glass.
     
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    It's an insecurity we have. About being big enough. To please a woman, how i guess how some women might be insecure about their tightness or breast size. Some may fear of being laughed at and be rejected on that ground.
     
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    Ya know - I think the moderators should post a rule about "no penis size topics" on SF. Good grief!!!!!:ugh
     
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    As i had stated before igor, it was ment as a poll question. More of a "what do you prefer" for the ladies.
     
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    I am sure they are more interested in larger girth then length.
    Larger girth requires more foreplay ,so I heard.
     
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    You're late Igor, r1rider already weathered our bitching and came out unscathed. Get off his case already.

    Hi, Rider, welcome to SF.
     
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    agreed.. SF is MUCH different than most other forums out there.. he hasn't ran away yet & has apologized, give him a break!
     
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    that's what i've been saying this whole time lol
     
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    Blame big pharma, ads in porn mags, and the abuse of camera angles and selecting of abnormally large guys for porn. That and having a bigger dick than the next guy somehow makes you manlier. :p

    And really it's no different than girls with make-up and boob jobs and all that.

    Apparently women should be like Barbie, and men need to look like Ken and be packing at least 9" limp. :coocoo Let's not get started on what porn teaches us about how sex should be... :D

    See the problem here is that I hear it differently from different girls. I hear a lot of the "it's not the size of the tool it's how you use it" stuff, but I also hear plenty of "bigger is better". It would make sense that girth would matter more than length for the friction as has been said, length seems like it would be less important based on physiology and such.

    In the end it's all personal preference, so answers will vary I guess.
     
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    As I recently said in an almost identical thread - stop worrying about size and learn how to use it properly. In my experice, guys that worry about size are usually a 4/10. They also tend to lack one of the traits that are most attracive to women - confidence.
     
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    Well, I can't say much about the 4/10 comment as that's entirely based on personal needs. But I'd have to admit that lack of confidence is a bullseye. But again, I don't see it as any different than how girls are being taught that they have to be wasp waisted, have huge tits, perfect skin, etc. to be perfect, and anything less requires pills and surgeries and other things in order to measure up. Is it a crock of shit? Yes? But it still works, else these markets wouldn't be making the money they are. For men it's a matter of making them feel just as inferior, dick is too small, not enough muscle, hair is grey, etc. If you don't have 9" limp, a six pack, and not a single grey, you're a washed up pot bellied shrimp dick who will never get laid or be successful or so the marketing wants you to think, and we all know how powerful marketing can be. It's got us all believing or at least thinking about any number of things at any time.
     
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    Hubby is 8.5" long and very thick, loverboy is much smaller and more slender.

    Sex with hubby hurts. Sexy with loverboy is incredible.

    Size really isn't everything.
     
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    You could never be too sure... haha Also its a pride thing, you dont want to be embarrassed when you take off your pants with a girl. We don't want to disappoint. I tell myself all the time "its above average, besides who cares..." to make myself feel better, now i love my size.