And what do you do to stay there as long as possible? My favorite is when my wife is working her crystal wand and I'm kissing her clit, and she starts taking very short and shallow breaths, almost like panting. When she does this, I know she's getting close to climax, and so I let her down just a little, but start building again immediately. Each time I do this, I get her a little closer and her desire gets more intense. When she starts to get verbal, it's time to let her cum, and by this time she's been at the brink several times for several minutes and the release is huge. Sometimes she clamps my head between her legs and pulls my face into her clit for maximum stimulation. From panting to release I can hold her there for up to 1/2 hour as long as I keep bringing her closer and closer each time I take her to the brink. I could do this for hours.