Do you think, in most people's mind, the stigma is worse for a guy to be a virgin or for a girl to be slutty? I did not lose my virginity at an early age by any means, but by the time I was 18 I was already trying to persuade people that I was not a virgin, and know a guy who is nearing 30 who I pretty well know to be a virgin, and he tries to hide it much the way a promiscuous woman would try to hide it. Experienced men, and virginal women, however never seem to have such qualms about their sexual histories. Just curious what other people's views here are regarding this. I know it's pointless, just something else to try to spark conversation and gauge views of others.