What's with anal - why waste a good pussy!

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  1. globesk8r

    globesk8r New Member

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    :eek I can't for the life of me understand why this act is so popular - any flick I see with anal penetration looks so unpleasant and downlight painful - is it really that satisfying, not that I'm interested - the little woman would never go that way and I know I wouldn't but how do you all feel about it?
     
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    thats because a porno will not be there to show what it can be like between 2 loving partners, porn is only showing 2 people getting paid to fuck , not to make love theres a huge difference.

    Anal for both sex's can be amazing, but vaginal intercourse is not wasted , it isnt one or the other , it uis usualy both, but obviously never anal to vaginal.
     
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    well some like other things.


    i know for sure that i'd love to try fucking a women in her pretty ass :D
     
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    That's like saying, to me anyway, why have anything else to eat but basic foods or watch just one channel or read just one newspaper. For that matter, why anything other than one position for regular vaginal sex.

    On the other hand, there is absolutely no reason to even explore it if you're not interested. It's not like your life is somehow missing.
     
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    When both partners are in the space, anal sex is pleasant and certainly not painful. I like pussy, and vaginal sex is great. Anal sex is different: the sensations are more intense and there is a degree of naughtiness about the act. I have had difficulties at times getting anal, and regular readers of my posts will understand why. But the partners of my past who consented to anal with me were very precious ladies indeed.
     
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    *puts face in hands, shakes head in bemused mirth* Oh man...tell me your wife doesn't read :sf. If my husband said that, I'd be like, "Oh ho, so I'm not "precious", then? Let's see how grateful he is after having tremendous difficulties getting anything for the next several months, the #@$%^* !@#$%&*#@."

    Well put! It can be very painful and unpleasant, but with the proper preparation (good lube, anal stimulation beforehand to loosen the sphincters, and anal dilation using objects smaller than a penis, over a period of time, until the anus/rectum can handle a penis without any discomfort), and a lover who knows to go slowly and thrust gently, it can be an amazing experience for both parties. Some women have their best orgasms this way. It's not for everyone, however, and a woman has to want it badly (and there's no way to induce this desire in a woman--it has to happen naturally).
     
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    LPJ said
    When i go to the store and see anything edible that I have never
    tried before I buy it and eat it. Except parsnips.
    When I have sex after going to porn sites and watching different things
    that 2 people can do. I try it but not anal. It just does not appeal to me
    yet i can kiss a woman's ass all night and absolutely go nuts at the sight of a woman's ass line.

    Hiker
     
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    i've never done anal and never will. IMO its unhygenic, dirty, i imagine its painful...

    but i cant say much as i've never done it, i've heard if its done proply (with lube and love) it can be really enjoyable, but i agree, why not have virginial sex?
     
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    if a girl has a great ass, don't you want to give it just a little more attention?
     
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    I like steak but not everyday.
     
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    My problem is size, particularly girth. My wife is not particularly keen on anal in the first place, but when considering my girth, it is certainly not something she wants to try! A few other partners in times past were open to the idea of anal, until they saw me ready. Without boasting, I am quite thick and am probably as thick (if not thicker) than most guys you will see on porn movies.

    My view is that you can ask for a mainstream sexual act a few times, or else your partner may never advance beyond the blushing virgin bride. But with anal, I will ask once (or maybe twice), but if it is clear that no means no, then I'll leave it in her hands to maybe change her mind one day (not likely). Moreso because of the size issue (a couple of younger partners in my earlier days needed ssothing reassurance they'd be able to have vaginal sex with me).
     
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    And that's fine, too! I still don't like sweet potatoes. :lol
     
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    It is dirty, I'll grant you that. Dirty, nasty, erotic as all fucking hell...:dgrin
     
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    Ohmygod.

    As I said in another post, I only really wanna do it once in awhile. But when I wanna...I have a video of me and the semi-ex (seperated) after I got her worked in, lubed and she was relaxed, the part where I slip the head in, she starts visibly shaking and is just panting and saying "Oh, my god...it doesn't hurt...Oh my god...go ahead baby...go baby..." She's trembling, shaking, moaning, crying out...then the stroking starts and I get deeper and deeper...ohmygod. Intensity defined. She reachs up to push her hair back (doggy) in this one part and her hand is shaking like a leaf...:bow *spurt*

    And, to answer your question, she has perhaps the greatest azz in world history. One of them anyway. My mind goes mushy just thinking about it and that one day in particular. I jerk off the the vid once in awhile. *shudder*.

    And, if you read my other post, she took that away from us, long ago. :mad And I've never understood.

    C'est la vie.
     
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    Hi emm :)
    I have only given anal sex a few times, the times i have , i have not hurt the females i was with, and they did find it to be very enjoyable, although the first time it was by total mistake, my entire length and girth slide all the way in with out any problems at all, it was her first time as well.
    with proper arousal it can be extremly easy for most sizes ( not for all females mind you ) to slide all the way inside.
     
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    lpj said
    I'll bet they are healthier than anal

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    Got me there! :lol
     
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    Whats the matter heel ?
     
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    I have no idea why but I found this hilarious.:lol