Okay when you have sex how long do you have sex for... 10 min 20 min an hour.. Whats everyones average time when they have sex. i know its not all about time but I want to know if I'm close to even being where I should. I'm usually around 40 minutes to an hour and then I'm ready and I have to let loose or I may lose my opertunity... My wife never complains but maybe shes just being nice. What do women wants. whats a good amount of time or how much time before your satisfied. Or is time not an issue at all just need the click if you know what I mean.. I'm lucky because I can make my wife come with oral very fast.. So I use it as a last resort.... Cant always make her cum by just fucking but she seems to cum better after oral and i mean right after. If I time it right i get up and in and in a minute shes done. Not always but I would say 50 % of the time. My point is we never really go for long sessions like I here some people going for 6 hours. I don't have that kind of time... If i did I think I would like sex for an hour and then go surfing for 5 hours.