What's going on????

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by ChargerBabe, Jan 10, 2008.

  1. ChargerBabe

    ChargerBabe New Member

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    I have been with my husband for 8 years now. When we started dating I was 19 and he was 21. The first year or so that we were together we had sex about 5 or 6 times a week. That has tapered of and for the vast majority we have been together we have sex about once or twice a week.

    But about 2 months ago something changed. We had sex one night and then the next night he started kissing my neck (he knows he is not allowed to kiss my neck unless he is willing to take care of me as this makes me so so so very horny :D). Two nights in a row i thought??? I asked him what was up and he said he was horny and wanted me. I would love to have sex every day so this was an exciting thing for me! Ever since then he wants to have sex EVERY night?!?! It has gone from me begging for sex to him being all over me every day!

    I am in no way complaining about this, I just don't understand what's going on. I asked him about it and he said that I make him very horny and he thinks about fucking me all the time and can't keep his hands off me!

    Any thoughts on this? I am baffled.....so very satisfied but baffled.
     
  2. slamd097

    slamd097 New Member

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    Hummmmm.....your are right something did change. That makes for an interesting thought though. However there are times that I just want my wife, and nothing can stop me....I guess we are like dogs and get into heat...lol
     
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    exactly what Slam said.
     
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    I understand what you guys are saying, but from 1-2 times a week to 7-8 for almost 2 months now?
     
  5. Barbwire

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    Why question it, just enjoy!
     
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    I think I have been their long ago.
    A lady at work was bothering me and I knew she wanted sex badly
    and we had plenty opportunities at work. And it turned me on.
    So what did I do about it.
    Simple, I just fucked my wife every morning and night
    and that kept the temptation enough so I could resist
    the lady at work, She finally gave up and found another
    guy to fuck.
    Then I went back to normal at home of around 5 times a week

    Hiker
     
  7. ChargerBabe

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    My husband does vending so he is in about 100 different businesses every week so I'm not sure if it's that, Hiker. Though it could be. It is just such a drastic change that it has peaked my curiosity.
     
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    Charger...who knows why we do what we do (as both men and women). Just enjoy it, and make the trend last as long as you can!

    BD
     
  9. LA_20

    LA_20 New Member

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    I think it's easy for people to forget how lucky they are to have their SO. Maybe he heard about someone at work with marital issues or something along those lines, and he remembered again how lucky he is to have you?
     
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    yorkiesmurf New Member

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    There are at least two possible explanations for this. First which probably the most logical is that he feels a level of attraction to you and finds you immensely desirable. You should not question it but enjoy it.

    Another possible explanation is that he is having an affair. Unless he is showing other signs then I would discount it.
     
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    just enjoy it