I am a male. I have had sex several times but not really that long. the first time was only about 10 mins and we stoped cuz she said that it hurt too much, yes she was a virgin and so was i. the second third and fourth times where also about 10 mins but she wanted to stop then, that i dont know why she did. then the fifth time it was about 20 mins. its not cuz thats only how long i can last but cuz she wanted to. i asked her one time if she didnt like it and if thats why we stoped. she said only the first one we did cuz it too to much and the second one did too but not as much. my question to you all, is how can i make our sex last longer. why might be the reason that we stoped?