whats first

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by judopimp06, Jan 30, 2007.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. judopimp06

    judopimp06 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2007
    Messages:
    25
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    I am a male. I have had sex several times but not really that long. the first time was only about 10 mins and we stoped cuz she said that it hurt too much, yes she was a virgin and so was i. the second third and fourth times where also about 10 mins but she wanted to stop then, that i dont know why she did. then the fifth time it was about 20 mins. its not cuz thats only how long i can last but cuz she wanted to. i asked her one time if she didnt like it and if thats why we stoped. she said only the first one we did cuz it too to much and the second one did too but not as much. my question to you all, is how can i make our sex last longer. why might be the reason that we stoped?
     
  2. Rose

    Rose Resident Sexy Grandma
    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 8, 2005
    Messages:
    6,823
    Likes Received:
    12
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Dixie Land
    Perhaps you need to add a little 'pazzazz' to your lovemaking.

    Don't go right at it - spend some time licking, sucking, carressing..... make your partner so hot WAAAAY before "real sex" starts.

    Then, do some different things. Talk to her while you are pumping in and out. Be sexy, confident, - and make her feel beautiful and sexy as well. Make it an erotic experience - not just slamming a cock into a pussy. YOU can be in control of how long it goes, and how well it goes by using a little imagination. Good luck! :tup
     
  3. bighiker2003

    bighiker2003 Banned

    Joined:
    Jan 27, 2004
    Messages:
    3,754
    Likes Received:
    8
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northern Indiana
    Our own Resident Sexy Grandma said

    I couldn't say it any better so I just quoted Her.
    Sex is not all about fucking, Take your time
    and do a lot of gentle oral sex. I like to get the Girl
    to have at least one orgasm before I fuck Her:sf
     
  4. judopimp06

    judopimp06 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2007
    Messages:
    25
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    ok thanks
     
  5. judopimp06

    judopimp06 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 30, 2007
    Messages:
    25
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    how do i know when she had an orgasm? she has never had one before and i have never had sex with any other girl.
     
  6. HardRocker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2006
    Messages:
    5,719
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Take some time to browse these forums and read up. There are many threads about how to make love. Be sure to check the "Sexual Foreplay & Techniques" forum. Many of the members here are multi-talented individuals and very knowledgeble in these areas.

    For starters make sure you are in a good environment with no distractions, make sure both of you are well lubricated, not intoxicated, and take your time. Being drunk will dull the physical senses and cause intercourse to drag on and on with no end in site... not plesant, especially for her.

    When she finally gets there, she'll surely know it, and I suspect you will too.
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.