Whatever you like

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by HisLilSecret, Dec 31, 2011.

  1. HisLilSecret

    HisLilSecret New Member

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    I have a habit of telling my boo "Whatever you like" I do have sexual motives but he hasnt ever acted on it. What would you say or do if you SO offered you whatever you like?
     
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    If my BF/SO tells this, I will handcuff him and facefuck him brutally till I cum all over his face & mouth. Because that is what I really like the most.
     
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    Nice! He loves licking my pussy, so its part of almost every encounter. Ive never been the one handcuffed so that might be fun to try.
     
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    Not sure have you ever tried to handcuff him and then fuck his face till you have your orgasm on his mouth. You can give it a try. It feels great to me, everytime I do it and have my orgasm in this way. Anyway if any boy ask me that he will do anything I want...this will be the thing I will ask from him, to be a good boy and let me fuck his face till I cum :)
     
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    I think this fantasy is more about me doing whatever he would like me to do. Your idea is hot, but he wont do handcuffs & he uses his fingers (very well) when he is licking my pussy. But the thought of making him eat me out till I squirt for him is pretty hot!
     
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    I like it when my wife is on top. In the category of things my wife isn't doing these days, she doesn't go for me cumming in her mouth but she did it once way back and I liked it. In general, it gets to be a bit of a fine line to walk on with asking for things. If I ask for too much she starts saying things about me wanting her to act like a porn star.

    That misses the point though. But I'll speak to the point anyway. Here's a much more general take on the appeal of porn. It's my perspective, but I suspect it is probably true more broadly. The sexual things I enjoy relate to achieving a sense of validation of my sexual prowess.

    I have this notion in my head that if I can be the man my wife needs me to be by whatever means I have to do it, she will return the favor by rewarding me sexually - and really, what I'm after is her active participation. That's a tricky concept really because to me that means her grinding on me, stroking me and/or moving her mouth up and down my cock.

    What's tricky is that if I use the terminology that I want her to do something more active, she can take it the wrong way... I enjoy pleasing her, but I want her to want me and I want to feel like I can do things that will get her to that state.

    I kinda know it doesn't really work that way, but I'm a man and if she would want to jump my bones then it would make me feel acknowledged for the manly things I do for her.. Whether it's because she likes the way I lick her pussy or because I hand mix and pour 2 tons of concrete in 24 hours or I took care of the kids while she went shopping or whatever.
     
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    A mutual face fucking would do it for me. Memories are grand
     
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    My SO is is very open to trying new things and gets turned on and is more than happy to give me "whatever I want" sexually. We have had many conversations of our fantasies and sexual turn-ons (usually while lying in bed together) and are interested in pleasing each other and fulfilling each other's desires. Sometimes we text each other during the work day and suggest things that we want to do to each other--that can be very hot -- especially thinking about it all day.

    We also enjoy the occasional visit to an adult toy store where it is fun to look at different things and choose something together to try. Sometimes I like to have him take total control and be the dominant partner. Other times I enjoy "taking over" and telling him what I want. There are restraints on my bed (they discreetly fit between the mattress and box springs) and they are fun to use for some light bondage. I enjoy putting the restraints on him and then teasing/ tantalizing him from head to toe with stroking, licking, suckng and
    kissing. I also enjoy straddling him and I'm sure you get the idea... Open communication and the desire to please each other are the keys. Don't hold back.
     
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    these last several posts remind me of my life...i had a woman like husband of redhead for 30 years. (very sexually repressed)....and now have a woman more like wildwoman59....(very open sexually)...and boy, the doors just fly open when you communicate...
     
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    12barblues,
    It takes more than communication or mixing cement to make a sexually repressed woman sexually active. I've had my share of both, and I believe once a woman is repressed, she will always be repressed. You can't show them something magical because they shy away, so they remain in their little space of 70% of good. You never get them to move, so it's a case of acceptance, moving on or something else.

    The adventurous women have been game to take it to 100%, loved it themselves, and want to go back and enjoy it again!

    While it's never happened to me, I wouldn't allow it to happen, I don't like the idea of a woman leading a man on with certain acts only to stop them when she's got him hooked. I couldn't imagine a woman taking a partner's favourite position away; is that love? Not in my book. When you keep saying 'no, no, no', that's not love.
     
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    what i meant was , the doors have flown open with the woman i'm with now. because we communicate sexually. the difference is amazing between the two.
     
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    Communicating your desires with a woman who's happy to go there does work! My girlfriend is like that (but not my wife).
     
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    That is also my life experience.
     
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    What I did with my wife was to enhance that which she is more comfortable with, which is tender, gentle sex. So we did a couple of Tantric lessons with the woman who originally taught me (interesting for the two women to meet at last). In any case Tantric for a couple is about togetherness, and enhancing sex through being emotionally closer to each other during the act. It worked. You can't have Tantric sex three times a week, but we do it once or twice a week and it's good, and she's very comfortable with it.

    But for Husband of Redhead, I'm trying not to pick on his situation, but my feeling is that even if the Tantric Goddess was available, his wife wouldn't be interested. And that's a bigger problem than mine.
     
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    yup...."some women ya just cain't reach"..lol....took me 30 years to figure that out. No matter how hard i tried it was like we spoke two different languages...thank god i found the woman i'm with now.... and learned alot about myself in the process...
     
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    That's why I have a girlfriend AND a wife.