I have a dilemna in my love life... My long term partner of 18 years and I have differing sexual preferences.... Since I have been receivng healing and working on my "inner" self I have become very confident in what I want sexually....all blocks have been removed and I feel free and healthy. This is great..... But the problem lies with the fact that he doenst want to play the same game.....he is gentle and yet doesnt want to be dominated or to experiment... I am extremely passionate, kinky and very keen on "sailing close to the edge" In all the 18 years I have been with him and loved him, I have never been untrue. It was only through sheer frustration that I decided to meet and connect with one lovely guy online....we have been friends and more for 18 months....he wants me to meet him... I want to go and experiment with him...we care for each other very much No one else has ever come this close to knowing me and understanding my desires.... My husband knows and says I should go meet him....???? What would you do?