what would you do

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  1. gaddes

    gaddes New Member

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    if you found out your man/woman was doing porn movies behind your back?
     
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    I'd break it off with her so quickly she wouldn't know what happened.
     
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    I'm afraid id have to agree.
     
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    I'd be furious, especially if he wasn't sharing the money he made with me!
     
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    If she ask I'd say sure and help her get set up. Behind my back, don't bother coming home I'll send your clothes.:mad:mad
     
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    Id ask why I wasnt in any of the movies haha

    and where da money at?!?!

    Depends really on what kind of porn movies your talking about, maybe as like a career it wouldnt be so bad. But if she was making home made movies cheating behind my back id leave her.
     
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    That would absolutely kill me...He'd know me well enough to know how my morals worked so for him to hide that from me...and lets imagine we had brought eachother home to our families? Id have no problem breaking it off, it is no different to me then cheating.
     
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    I would break it off,if they can't be honest, then they can't stay with me
     
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    that would be soooo hot!!
     
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    Before I file for divorce..."go ahead and tell me the other things you are doing behind my back?"
    She gone!!!
     
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    My first response would be hot, nonfluctuating anger and it would taper into a sharp and cold sadness capable of severing our love entirely, and be sheathed in a heartache that would make diamonds brittle and chipped. At that point it would be up to me to use that blade to cut a frail strand between us, whether I could do it or not, will remain a mystery unless that should ever occur.
     
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    I wouldn't like it, that's for sure!
     
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    deckard kain you need to stop playing video games hahaha... that post was deep!
     
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    Id break it off..... because I'd have wanted to have been in on it too!
     
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    Man! give the guy/girl a brake. The post never said if they were married, b/f, g/f? maybe they love each other. Confront them! Say hey, I found these porn videos, can we watch one together, I'm curious? Maybe if you can find out why, you can move on. There are people you know that are "addicted to porn". just because they are doing it behind your back, is no reason to flip out and leave! Work together, find out why.
    Good luck
     
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    Many questions go into determining the answer to this.

    -Is she being paid for it? If she's doing it for free I'm more likely to get pissed off because that means she's doing it just for pleasure, which is supposed to be my job.

    -Is it widespread or just for a small group of people? If it's wide spread then I'm less likely to get pissed off, as that would imply that it's more business than personal.

    -Is she committing sexual acts with other people or just going solo? Obviously, I'm less likely to be pissed if it's solo for the obvious reason.

    -If there are other people, are they male or female? Pissed since someone else is doing my job and taking my pleasure either way.

    -Is there a camera/sound crew or is it purely home-made? If she's paying someone to watch her fuck herself/other people and won't even let me watch it for free, I'm'a be pissed.

    There are many different combinations of answers to these question, which means that there are many different possible reactions.
     
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    I'd ask him if I can join him ;)

    lol..nah..I really don't know..of course I'd be pissed..but my husband knows how open I am about stuff like this..so I'm sure we would be able to work out something :D
     
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    These two lady's seem to like doing porn and gave good answers

    Lets try another example. If He asked you to do porn with Him and you
    refused.
    Then He did it behind your back, How would you handle it.

    Hiker
     
  19. cook74

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    I'm with Jaguar on this, you can't just make your decision based on that alone. Try to find out what's behind it all.
     
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    I would think I'd died and gone to heaven.