What would you do if you walked in and saw your SO in bed with someone else?

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  1. Marcpatrick

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    What kind of attitude would you adopt towards it? Would you be angry, jealous, betrayed, humourous, maybe even turned on? Or would you become threatening and/or violent?
     
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    turned on? fuck that.

    i'd find a chainsaw and kill them both
     
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    *Note to self* Never piss off NH.

    I would be a little shocked and pissed off.
     
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    Oh I would torture them both slowly and then murder them.
     
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    I would be shocked, hurt but happy that I caught them and I could get the fuck out of the situation with good reason.
     
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    After I got over the Oh Shit! stun, I think I would probably scream a psychotic terrorizing sounding order for the guy to get the fuck out of my house. And I'd pick up something hard short and hefty to help make sure he did. After that I'd use the same voice to ask her what the fuck was that all about.
     
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    well i am fairly open with our sexual relationship even though she isnt.she says she never will do anything like that even while i encourage her to do it.its something i fantasize to while masturbating.if she ever went through with it and i walked in after the initial shock of realizing shes actually doing it i would be horny like crazy and probably sit down and start jacking off :D
     
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    There were times in my life I would have regretted what would happen..Now in my old age I'd freak the fuck out and dependent on the dudes attitude run him off or beat him unconscious and bleeding.
    The Girlfriend would be fine although her ears would be ringing from all the yelling I'd do.. I've been extremely angry with girlfriends in the past, but never ever have a laid a hand on one.
     
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    what a interesting contrast...heeheh
     
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    If it was a man, i'd be like 'GET THE FUCK OUT!" and afterwards scream at my wife for saying "if you wanted to fuck someone else, show me the same fucking respect as i would you and talk to me first so i know it's just a fuck to get out of your system! and if this has been going on and you lvoe him more [takes off the ring and throws it at her] you pay for the fucking divorce!"

    and if she was in bed with a woman...i'd say "you should ahve told me if you were gonna have company sweetie :)"

    I'm a sexist son of a bitch
     
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    yea people never really understand and always question me, im open sexually and i wouldnt consider it cheating, i always tell my woman as long as she doesnt get emotionally attached or get romantic with other men thats what i classify as cheating.
     
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    I would think that hell just froze over. :lol It wouldn't make any sense. My wife is about as horny as Sheldon in "Big Bang Theory" (that is: not at all :eyes).
     
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    Sounds like a technologically updated passage from the Old Testament :D
     
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    hahaha gotta love that guy!
     
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    ditto
     
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    take tons of pics ... post them online ...mail them to his family ...leave him ,glad to find out sooner than later ..
     
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    KICK THE GUYS ASS! Then it's D I V O R C E!
     
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    Get my affiars in order for a very long prison stay. Someone's gonna get hurt very very badly.
     
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    A girl after my own heart. I think I'd use my hockey skates. Razor sharp, but I do have 3 chainsaws and a goalie mask.
     
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    "Fantastic!" Would probably be my response. I'd likely join in.

    Clearly I'm in the minority here but that's not really a surprise.
    My wife and I have an incredibly loving, honest, respectful, trusting and open relationship. She's free to bed whomever she likes. As am I. I trust her judgment. I know she loves me. That's really all it takes. It's been working great for us for more than 10 years.

    I'm not condoning cheating. Not at all!

    I'm just adding a different point of view.