What would you choose?

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  1. Babiegurl

    Babiegurl New Member

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    My birthday is coming up in 24 days and I want to do something special for it. I can decide on weather my husband and I should go get a hotel room and have a wild couple of nights there to spice things up or to go to a day spa and get massages and papmer ourselves go to dinner and then have a wild sevral nights at home? I want it to be special because we havent had a weekend to ourselves for something special in a long time. Also we are open to ideas as well, so if niether seem appealing give me your thoughts!
     
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    Both sound awesome to me. But, as a woman, I'd rather go to a day spa with my man so that we could pamper ourselves, and then be wild in the privacy of our own home. I like hotels, but given the choice, that sounds awesome!
     
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    I'd go to the spa but leave the old man home. Hopefully you will get a red hot massage therapist and end up having a taudry affair. Oh yeah, that's the ticket! :lol
     
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    I'd say the hotel. Are men even into the spa thing?
     
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    hard one, i would go for the hotel
     
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    I would go for the massage, I think my husband would enjoy a couples massage, then spend a wild weekend at home.
     
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    A couples massage together, a romantic dinner out, then a steamy night of sex afterwards. That's just me, though. It all depends on if he's romantic or brute.
     
  8. Joe

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    A few years back, for my wife's birthday, we went to a resort hotel for the weekend. We each had a massage in the hotel's massage room, nice dinners, and lots of steamy sex in between. Yes, you CAN have it all! ;)
     
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    I'd go with the wild couple days at a hotel. Nothing like a change of scenery to liven things up a bit.
     
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    I truly believe that a couple wild nights in a hotel is more appealing to the male gender than the massage thingy. However, definitely check out Joe's idea - have your cake and EAT IT TOO!! :lol

    There's something so romantic and exciting about the change of scenery - wearing only your cutest outfits - having your meals prepared for you - your bed made up when you come back to the room (if you ever leave the room :lol ) - that just sets your spirit free!! You can go out if you want to... but you can stay in bed, if you want to. It's so 'carefree'!

    HOTEL!!! Definitely do the hotel!!
     
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    As a guy, since it would be my SO's birthday I would be happy with either. Honestly, 'I' win either way so it's her choice.
     
  12. Babiegurl

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    WOW thanks for the great ideas!!! We hit a road bump though. Since the Rockies won their last game they are playing the world series so everything has just gotten busy around town... we might have to do a weekend getaway later on after the snow is over with. But we'll see what we can do, I really wanted to do both, Thanks Joe!!!
     
  13. Joe

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    Babygirl, the last World Series game in Denver will be October 29 (or the 28th if the Rockies don't lose one before then. If your birthday is 24 days from your Oct. 15 post, the 2007 World Series will be history. (And the Rockies will be world champs!) ;)
     
  14. Babiegurl

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    Thank you for the info Joe!!!! Thank god! No offense but I'm not much of a Rockies fan. I just know how bad a last world series I was near and that was the 1989 in the San Fransisco Bay area when Giants and A's were playing, you know the day the Earthquake hit there. I think I wont have issues making plans... I will tell ya what I ended up doing. Thanks again
     
  15. AnonymousOne

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    I think what Rose means is "definitely do him at the hotel!!" :lol
     
  16. fantasien

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    have you thought of going OUT OF TOWN? Maybe a national Park? Youcould have sex in the woooodssszz:dgrin
     
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    Damn that only gives me 24 days to get a massage therapist
    license. And be at the spa.
    good idea CL, You have a great mind.

    Hiker
     
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    I say the hotel. My guy isn't much for spas.