What would you change...

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  1. HotForHoney

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    If you could change one (2-3-4-17) thing(s) about your "SO" what would it be?

    Physical feature, sex desire, cooks better....
     
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    If I had one and wanted to change anything about her then I shouldn't be with her.
    Change just one thing and you've change the person, so they are no longer who you were/are with.
    Well OK; I've had partners who I would have change things about but that's why they didn't become SOs
     
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    No one is perfect. I don't have one either but even when you were happy w an ex, there are things you'd change.


    Wish she wore sexy underwear, slept naked.... Didn't burn boiling water....
     
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  4. Him and her

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    Life is short so I wish we were both more adventurous.
     
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    Lose about 50 lbs
    desire sex
     
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    Well at least one of you can change that and you might find that the other then changed.
    If life's so short do something about changing.
     
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    The only thing I can think of is I wished my wife was more Adventurous sexual and want to do more things. Her wish is she wants Bigger Breasts(I would not mind that one bit hehe). Apart from that, My wife is really loving and caring and in my corner 100%. so I couldn't ask for a better wife. Well ok I could ask, But I doubt I would find it. lol
     
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    The main thing that I wish I could change about him is that he snores really loud!
     
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    If mrsbiker would put tools back when she was done with them she'd be perfect!
     
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    I wish she'd give away her inhibitions and become more slutty and willing to play with others
     
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    More fun and adventure
     
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    everything outside the bedroom is great....in the bedroom, like others have said, I think I want her to be more adventurous and initiate more.
     
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    Everything in the bedroom is fine, I hope she NEVER changes! Outside the bedroom, I wish she was a little less bossy.
     
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    I wish she would want more oral. Giving and receiving. I love giving her oral, but she says it drives her crazy to much. Opps:) And if I wait much longer I'll forget what it feels like to have a woman suck my cock. :(
     
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    I'm married to an amazing man, I wouldn't pick any other man to be my daughters father. That being said...I wish our personalities were more complimentary to each other. Physically...a bit more Henry Cavillesque would be amazing. A girl can dream. :)
     
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    Her immune system such that she could tolerate a little makeup and perfumes.
    At least that would help selecting gifts a little easier ;)
     
  17. CaramelLady

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    Next time ask her to slip it back in you pants and gently zip them back up. Oh wait! You said tools, not TOOL. Ooops! Sorry! My bad!
     
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  18. CaramelLady

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    Same problem here. Currently dealing with hives because of the perfume. There is jewelry, lingerie, gift cards, oh how about a day at the spa, or a gift card to get her hair and/nails done? A massage. Who does the cooking and cleaning? Have a romantic dinner waiting for her,. Flowers. A surprise day trip.

    If you are looking for ideas just come ask us and we can help!
     
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    Sorry but nothing really comes to mind. Our sex drives are matched, she wears lingerie, low maintenance and good with money, keeps herself in top shape, our likes and dislikes are matched, or child rearing techniques and rules are virtually the same.....ok, she may be a little picky on cleaning. That'd be it.
     
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    ^ you're very lucky
     
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