What Would Normally Turn You Off...

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  1. LordOfChaos

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    We all have people that we loom at and, on a purely shallow level, we would do ANYTHING for. For example:

    Whenever i see Nigella Lawson, i think of her being dom and doing unspeakable acts to me that normally i wouldn't be up for. But due to how amazingly sexy and flirty, and don't forget curvy, she is, she could abuse me and i would shoot everywhere. Even if she smoked, which i'm not keen on generally.

    Yet, there are people who are borderline, smoking would put me off totally. What would put you off someone?
     
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    Exactly that; smoking, snorting & shooting up are total turn off for me.
    Cruelty and disregard for others sensibilities are equally disconcerting.
    As you say LOC, there are few individuals we admire and for whom we would forgive these trespasses just to get close to on a sensual level but I suspect the attraction would be short-lived in reality.
     
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    All of those..and fat...being overweight just doesn't do it for me.
     
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    Smoking.... ugh.
     
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    It could be the hottest guy or girl on the planet but if they have bad teeth (and poor oral hygiene in general)...I'm outta there!

    That and illegal drugs of any sort...
     
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    Agree.
     
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    Cool that you mention Nigella. I like her too.:D

    Hm, turnoffs? Well, I disagree with you about being dominated :eyes. Not my thing. Chewing gum is also a bit of a turnoff, as well as bad breath (OK I see a slight contradiction there, but there are other ways to handle it besides gum:p)
     
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    ok... forgive me....this may sound bad.....and i'm not judging anyone, i believe it takes all kinds of people to make up a world...but i'm absolutely turned off by stupid women. Ones that you cant have any kind of intelligent,meaningful conversation with. That's why i love all the people on this forum.....you all make me feel like a friggin idiot....and God that turns me on....:)
     
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    Stupid, Lazy, Prejudiced. Bad Hygine, Chain Smoker, Drunkard, Drug Abuser.

    Extremes in weight, too overweight like morbidly obese or super thin almost skeletal looking.
     
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    you forgot "lazy,,.... disrespectful..."......SHUT UP BITCH, AND FIX ME A TURKEY POT PIE.....!!!!:lol
     
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    Being egotistical
    Loud and obnoxious
    Ignorant
    Prejudiced
    Having poor hygiene,
    Heavy drinker, illicit drug use... all turn me off.
     
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    I think chewing gum is a turn on.

    Turn offs:
    - Being stupid is definantly one. Like someone said it could be the hottest chick out there but if shes dumb, peace out. Cough.. Jessica Simpson.... cough.
    - loud and obnoxious. Being above the law. I understand saying stuff to others when you need to but I hate when women start shit over some dumbass shit.
    - Cigarettes! ugh, so bad.
    - I dont mind chubby but fat is a no go.
    - Women that cough loogies and spit them. wtf, thats almost worse than smoking. Also snorting goes with that. Blow your dam nose.
    - Bad breath
    - Hairy private parts, like not even trimmed.
    - drama queens
    - Women that constantly bug you about getting married
    - Karaoke in the car to eeeeeeeeevery song. Shoot me god please.
     
  13. LordOfChaos

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    Ok, thanks for the replies - but is there anyone in the world you'd forgive those for, just gor one night of shallow, all-about-the-looks sex?

    Like i said, im not a fan of smoking, but would gladly forget about it if it meant getting it on with my fantasy female.
     
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    Nope...not even Hugh Jackman would make it to my bed if he had bad teeth!
     
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    :lol i would have to agree!!! There are certain fellas who could do what they wanted and i'd still bend over for them gladly.

    Gerard Butler is another, but only as he was in 300 - god he could have bad breath, chew tobacco, anything and he could still take advantage of me.

    In fact i think i have a thing for those hot sweaty types - any of the gladiators from Spartacus Blood and Sand could have their wicked way too - and they must've smelled bad. No toothpaste, no deoderant YUCK! But still soooooooooooo sexy.

    Yikes i got carried away and had a little ramble.............
     
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    Read that wrong Splendid!!!

    I clearly have lower standards when it comes to my fantasy guys lol
     
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    hahaha...all good...but bad teeth really IS a deal breaker for me. :lol
     
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    lol i'd just tell him to go from behind, if i dont see i dont know ;-) far too early to be getting giddy about Hugh Jackman taking me from behind!!!!
     
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    Splendid Thoughts, I am with you here. Bad teeth are just wrong! the girl and I kiss a lot [as well as put our mouths/tongues elsewhere] so need some bon les dents!

    Ta ta.
     
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    An overly hairy, smelly vag...