What was your first sexual experience like?

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  1. Elisabeta

    Elisabeta New Member

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    My first boyfriend kissed like a vacuum cleaner so we're not going to count that little experience, as it was short-lived, to say the least.

    But, then there was "David". David was the sweetest guy in the world. And he was my steady boyfriend until we eventually parted ways to go to separate colleges.

    Anyway, It was the middle of summer. I was 16 years old and he was 17. My parents had gone out of town for the week on a business trip and had hired this elderly lady to stay with me. She liked to take a lot of naps. We'll call her Mrs. Z.

    In those days, we lived near a golf course, and David lived about three blocks from me. The plan was to wait until Mrs. Z went to bed, then meet on the fairway and to gaze at the stars. We were both into astronomy, so this seemed like a good idea -- no street lights to interfere with the starlight and wide open spaces to gaze up at the night sky. Especially since we were both virgins. We had spent alot of time making out and feeling each other up, but had never had the opportunity to do anything else.

    So, we're out on the fairway, sitting on a blanket, staring up at the sky and he's pointing out all the constellations to me, and of course, before ya know it, we're lying down, making out and unzipping and unbuttoning shirts, jeans, everything. We had been dating for about 8 months and we were sooo ready.

    Now keep in mind, we were both inexperienced and, as horny as we both were, we were scared, too. At any rate, he had my top off and I was wearing one of those lacy demi-bras that I had bought just for the occasion. For you fellas who have never heard of a "demi-bra" it's the type of bra that only covers the lower part of your breasts, leaving the top part -- and the nipples -- exposed.

    He really liked it.

    So, he was unzipped, but still had his jeans on, was halfway lying on top of me and fondling my breasts and licking my nipples like crazy and I was going absolutely insane. About the time, I reached down and began rubbing his hard-on. We heard a deep, feral growl coming from the woods. We later decided it was two cats fighting/mating, but at the time, we were really spooked, so we got up, zipped up, and began walking up the fairway to just get away from the sound.

    We wound up at the swimming pool which was surrounded by a tall wrought iron fence, but proved to be no problem as we found a space between the bars that we could actually squeeze through.

    By now, it's 2:00 in the morning. And what do teenagers do at 2am on a hot summer night when they're standing by a pool with no one around? You guessed it.... they go skinnydipping. So here we were naked, splashing each other like kids and just enjoying the water. Since I had removed my demi-bra, he was particularly preoccupied with my breasts. He was very good at licking. He'd start just beneath a nipple and lap it with the breadth of his tongue over and over. Then he'd play with the other nipple.

    At one point, he dove under the water, got between my legs and licked my clit for about 20 or 30 seconds. When he came up, we hugged each other and I wrapped my legs around him while he slid his cock, not in me, but back and forth between the folds of my labia. I could feel the head and length of his penis brushing against my clit as he thrust it between my legs, back and forth and it was wonderful! I came in about 1 minute.

    Finally, we decided we needed to be in more shallow water, so we swam over to the wading end of the pool where it's only about 10 inches deep. This was where I had him sit back on a step so that his cock was just above the water. I had never performed fellatio before, so I was sort of experimenting by simply licking the head of his penis, which he really enjoyed.

    I asked him what he'd like, but I remember him saying to me, "Do whatever you want to do". So, I continued to lick the head of his cock, swirling my tongue around the head and gently going down just a little ways down the shaft. I was between his legs and I remember looking up at him while I was licking him and seeing him watch me. He kept saying, "Baby... that is soooo good." I'll never forget it.

    I took my time licking him. I was enjoying it, and even though I had yet to perfect any "technique", he was perfectly happy letting me explore. At one point, a police car came down the long road toward where the clubhouse was. We were surprised at first, but decided to be still and not move. The road the police car was on circled the pool which was on high ground over-looking the road. In other words, we could see them, but they'd have to get out of the car and come through the locked gate to see us. They eventually left.

    I went back to licking David, and after a minute or two he asked me to straddle him -- he wanted to stroke my clit with his cock while he played with my breasts. (He really had a tit fetish, I think). So, I positioned his cock between the folds of my labia and began moving back and forth. This felt really good to me and I could tell I was going to come again so I started grinding against him harder. I could tell he was so close to coming.

    I think what tipped him over the edge was when I began playing with my nipples -- teasing them with my fingertips. I remember giving my breasts little shakes and shimmys and that's when he lost it watching my tits jiggle back and forth. I remember feeling deliciously wicked and loving it because he literally GASPED out loud, "Oh my God!... Oh my God!" His hips were bucking and I could actually feel him coming -- he was so hot.

    That night, we took turns going down on each other and then playing in the water like kids until about 4:30 am. We ran the gamut between being shamelessly wicked to being wide-eyed innocent. One thing was for sure -- we loved the taste of each other. He'd lap my clit until I was absolutely convulsing. And then I'd go down on him until he's come in my mouth which was soooo nice.

    That night, we became the animals emitting the feral growls. :eek:
     
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  2. Joe

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    Wow! That's some story! Well done.

    Unfortunately I don't remember much about my first time, except that it was at an abandoned farm yard, late at night in the front seat of a '54 Chevy, and I was so nervous I was shaking like a leaf. It became a routine for a few years -- same farm yard, same front seat, same girl -- so they all run together.
     
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    My first time was a miserable experience. We were in the front seat of my car parked in a hilltop roadside park. The temperature outside was 34 F and it was raining. I managed to get my hand on her bare breast. The next thing I knew she was shedding clothes and then began to undress me.

    I was not ready for sex but I decided to be a man and go through with it. I quickly learned the difference between a virgin (me) and a non-virgin (her). She tried to guide me into her but she was too tight, too cold, and too dry.

    Meanwhile, in another alcove about fifty feet from us, two couples were partying and screaming and running around like maniacs. It was quite annoying and distracting. We decided to leave.

    On the way home, my date told me she'd had sex with only six other men. I told her she was my first and she said, "I can tell." For some reason that comment upset me.

    The next morning we learned that the two loud couples next door weren't partying. It was a homicide in progress. One of the dudes killed the other dude and raped and killed the two girls. We never told anyone we where there.

    We both were sixteen at the time.
     
  4. Elisabeta

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    Well, gosh, Joe... didn't y'all ever think about changing the scenery?
    ...up in the hayloft maybe?

    I always wondered what it would be like in a hayloft.
     
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    Trophy-Husband, you said:

    "On the way home, my date told me she'd had sex with only six other men. I told her she was my first and she said, "I can tell." For some reason that comment upset me."

    Well, I guess so! That comment about the six other men would make me wonder, too.
     
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    Well told, Elisabeta. My first real sexual experiences took place with my first puppy love when we were both in our mid-teens. A few years ago I wrote the story though I have never posted it anywhere. I'm not sure about posting it here either though because it is long, very long. Perhaps I can post an excerpt of our first date or something similar. I'll give it some serious thought.
     
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    my first sexual experience was really another man teahing me how to masturbate! wow was i a fast learner! i was just 13 years old then, the next episode happened when i was 15. again it was another man, we were watching porn at his home when he unzip me and fellate me. i finally lost my virginity to a prostitute at 17. it was a learning experience but i wish it had been better.
     
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    I fingered and felt up a girl at age 23, she later offered sex but I felt I wasn't ready.
    I felt up my (now) fiance, fingered her, and later lost my virginity to her at age 24 which fully thrust me into a normal sex life. As a three year sex veteran, I am now up to par (and then some) with where I should be, minus the kinky stuff that I'm not interested in.
     
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    We were seniors in high school. My girlfriend that has been my wife for almost 14 years now, went to my buddy's farm to park and fool around. We parked and jumped in the back seat to sit and talk. One thing led to another and we decided that we wanted to fuck each other.

    It was my first time and she had been with a couple of guys before. I think in some ways it was easier for me since she was not a virgin. We got naked and she really liked it when I took my pants off and exposed my already hard cock.

    She laid sideways in the backseat, felt of my dick a little and guided me in. I had done quite a bit of jacking off in the last few years so I knew what it felt like to cum. What I was totally taken by suprise was how warm and soft it was inside her pussy. I didn't last more than a minute the first time. I was embarassed a little, but she said not to worry.

    We sat and talked and cuddled for about 10 minutes and then I was ready to go again. This time was an different story. I absolutely rocked her world. I came again and she had a screaming orgasm. It was awesome.

    We dressed and it was time for her to go back to her parents house. I realized later after returning home, my shirt was on backwards.
     
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    My first sexual experience was when I was 18, well last year haha... I met a girl online and went and met her, we had already been talking for a year, so we hoped right into bed. I fingered her after about an hour of her hinting to me that she wanted it... I was just a little scared lol cuz she was experienced and I wasnt... It all turned out good tho :) we been goin out since, a year now.
     
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    Hi CyberWryter,

    Perhaps you could write about it in chapters! :)

    ...that's what I tend to do when I know something is going to be a bit long-winded.
     
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    BigBalls,

    >>We dressed and it was time for her to go back to her parents house. I realized later after returning home, my shirt was on backwards.

    That's too funny! Did your parents question you about your shirt?
     
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    The guy I had my first time with is in the Army, stationed at a nearby fort, and was heading to Iraq in less than a month. I knew I would lose my virginity to him, it was just a matter of when I was ready. I had planned on doing it the following friday night, but decided that I wanted it on the Sunday before so I wouldn't be sore and be able to have more *fun* that weekend. So I texted him saying "I want you. Can I have you tonight? Bring some condoms" LOL
    So we chilled for a while, then got right down to business..we made out on my bed and clothes started coming off. The actual sex itself wasn't very pleasant for me. It just hurt, and I was pretty glad when it was over. I didn't want him around for a week because I suppose I felt betrayed by all the tales of "it only hurt for a few moments". After a few times, the sex didn't hurt. I was sad to see him go, I had grown to care for him.
     
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    my first sexual experience was the summer before i was a freshman in high school..... i had a gf that lasted about 8 months and she never had done anything before either..... i remember her coming over when my parents were gone and asked if she could try something.... i said okay and she went down on me..... it was seriously a great blowjob and i wanted to go down on her so i did..... the whole 8 months of dating was a lot of fun because we did so much.... we never had sex and when we broke up i found out she started dating like a month laster and having sex with the kid like 2 weeks into their relationship.....

    i still have some harsh feelings about knowing that but now she is basically engaged to my best friend and we are still very good friends.... i dont really know why we broke up but my gf now is better than any female i have ever encountered..... maybe things just happen for a reason.
     
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    Luckily they were in the other room when I came in so I had a chance to go change it around :D
     
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    My first experience, I think I was around 12, was in my room by myself. My older sister, the cheerleader, came back from a game with a girlfriend. I was in bed, or so they thought, and they were changing in the bedroom across from mine. Lucky for me they left their door open and I was peering through the crack in my door. They proceeded to undress and I was treated to my first voyeurism. I got an erection, didn't know what to do with it, and went to bed. Quickly I discovered that my sheets were very warm and slick and I was out of breath. It didn't take very long for me to realize that I could make that happen whenever I needed it....and, as they say, the rest is history.
     
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    still a virgin :(
     
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    Mine was crap. I was 15 and should have known better. Or not, I like to think teenagers are more sophisticated now than I was then. But maybe its not that, its just more in-your-face today and kids are sexualised at younger ages. Anyway, enough rant from me.

    The guy was a year older than me. It was a very tense (for me) tumble in his bedroom one afternoon when his parents weren't home. Frankly, I'm not even sure he was able to penetrate me properly, I was that nervous. But I don't remember my next sexual encounter (not for another two years) as being crappy so perhaps he had. I do remember feeling incredibly guilty and didn't want to see the guy ever again afterwards. Happily, from then on though, it was, for the most part, pretty good.

    Weird how I know more women than men who've said the first time was crap.
     
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    Ok

    Mine was bad I guess. It was great for me, but she cried the whole time so it wasn't for her. It was her first too. Against the norm for a 1st timer I lasted like 30 minutes or more.. She wasn't in pain, but she was scared.:( (I kind of talked her into it)

    Now that I look back I feel horrible about it..:( At the time I was so excited I didn't care... Not that I didn;t care about her.. Actually I loved her very much... I was going to marry her(I thought) I was 18 and she was 17.

    We are good friends now so obviuosly she doesn't hold a grudge.
     
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    if by sexual you mean kissing, like makeing out then it was really sloppy, lol, but if you mean sex sexual wise, basically the gilr just played with my cock and put her lips around my head and then i twitched my cock and she got freaked out and stopped..not much experience but that shit was hilarious