[Ask a Guy] what was it like when your penis was touched for the very first time?

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    I mean the absolute VERY FIRST time at whatever age by another person in a sexual manner. By your first gf or something. What did it feel like mentally? could you not believe it was happening? did you become erect fast (if you were not already) could you literally not believe it at all?

    Describe the experience and feeling mentally please.
     
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    I was already hard from messing around and all I can remember thinking is 'this is really happening'!
     
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    I was at summer camp and making out with a girl on a trampoline. I started putting my hand down her pants and she slid her hand down mine. I was already hard and going crazy and almost as soon as she touched it I shot all my cum. What a mess in my pants..LOL
     
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    I was shy so it took me a while to have a girlfriend so the real first time was a hooker I needed to try things with and get over the part of being so scared of doing the first moves sexually. I was hard, already dripping with precum, heart pounding, nervous as hell.
    I couldn't believe I was doing this, mixed feelings about it, but happy I finally had a woman taking my penis in her hands, giving me a BJ as well, and first time I got to have a good feel of breasts. Feeling nipples get hard was, and still is, a huge turn on.
    I don't take long to get hard when touched by a woman, unless already hard even today.
    One lady I used to meet regularly was used to have to do the work to get a guy ready before me, she felt it was a compliment when I would be hard, when about to have sex. Everytime I get touched and hard I am happy and want more, and I want that woman to see it hard for her
     
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    I was already about as hard as I could be, we'd been rubbing hard against each other through our clothes for weeks.
    This night I had at last managed to gain access,unexpectedly easily, to her breasts and after the excitement of feeling their rounded softness and her erect nipples I decided to 'try my luck' further down.
    Her skirt didn't come up or her panties aside as easily as her blouse had opened but after some persuasion my finger found its surprisingly wet destination and I began to explore to her obvious pleasure.
    To my shock she lowered my zip but because of my state couldn't set my cock free and I hurriedly did it for her.
    She didn't look but just reached down and as her fingers touched the tightly stretched skin of my shaft it was like an electric shock ran right through my body, her soft touch was so different than mine that I'd know for so many years.
    Just from the excitement and hope of what I wanted to happen my cock was already throbbing, pulsing and oozing pre-cum and when she gripped my shaft and then moved her hand backwards and forwards that was it - I shot my load.
    I don't know if it was because of the swelling of my shaft, at the way I yelled out, or the way the cum pumped and spurted, but she let go and my cock jumped and twitched, spraying her all over with my copious sticky ejaculate.
    I grabbed myself and squeezed hard trying to stop it but it was too late, the damage was already done.
    What she said and the way she acted after that was anything but passionate and killed my 'ardour' much quicker than usual.
    One of my strongest memories of my first touch and cum from feminine fingers is - how fucking difficult it is to get cum off a white blouse and dark blue skirt with grass:rolleyes: :D
     
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    It was 45 years ago (we were both the same age) it was after a time at our local swimming hole in the woods. We were walking back thru the woods along a trail and stopped to make out a little. We'd already gotten all touchy feely with clothes on but with wet swim wear it was different. She had slipped her too off and let me play with her titties naked for the first time and I was feeling her thru her suit bottoms too. She had never touched my naked dick, just rubbed it thru pants or shorts, but this time she slipped her hand inside and squeezed and rubbed me. It felt amazing. She said something like it was so cool it was all hard but soft at the same time. She pulled my trunks down and looked at it and I probably came in less than two minutes! Couldn't believe it felt so different and so much better than my own hands! After that she let me feel her bare pussy and I'm pretty sure she came too. We both learned a lot that summer!
     
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    This is mine;
     
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    I was at the movies and we were making out. I was painfully hard. It was a rush. I was a bit scared because I knew it was going to happen. I think I was twelve. It didn't go much farther than that but that would be my first case of blue balls. And the first time I had sex , as I was entering her I came. I was less then a 2 pump chump
     
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    I have a great story I shall add it later on tonight for you all to enjoy
     
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    Theatre class in 8th grade. Smokin' hot lead girl in the play was going around giving all the guys "good luck kisses" before the big show - not just BS little pecks on the cheek either; legitimate kisses. (In retrospect it was no wonder the other girls labeled her a "slut" - when she was just way more liberal/open physically/sexually.)

    I was 13 - so what could be expected but my dick going, "Oh yeah? Kisses for everyone?" and poking his head up as I watched her make her way towards me. She got to me, pulled me close, kissed me and also got poked by my cock pressing against my pants silently shouting, "ME NEXT! ME NEXT!" She just kind of smiled at feeling my hardness, looked down, giggled, and told me the best thing I'd heard in my life up to that point: "Later."

    Later...

    After the show she pulled me off to a totally private and concealed portion of the backstage area. (Theaters are great for those places.) She started kissing me again. We both were really getting into it - riding the high from a performance and being early on into our teen years so amped up on insane levels of hormones. Before I knew it she had my pants down. It was only fair - I had my hands up her shirt and skirt. She took hold and electric flames shot through my body. Talk about a rush! About four strokes later and I shot off. Thank god I was still so young - not much mess - if that had happened with how I am now... :rolleyes: ;) :p
     
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    Well I remember having a group of two close friends and one of the friends sister who was a year older than us. And I believe we were in 6th or 7th grade when we started fooling around with each other. It would always start with truth or dare and we end up finding thjngs to stick out cocks into or we would dare each other to jerk off for. 5 mins. My friends sister never did any of the dates as I remember she would just watch and sometimes make out with us. So one day we met all out way in the woods where we did it mostly. And after a while the bro sis duo had to go home. And me and my friend had decided to jerk off to finish before we went home. I remember this as being my first time seeing his dick and it was 5x bigger than mine already as I was a late bloomer. He was about 8" soft no lie and decent thickness too, I was skinny as hell and like 2" soft. So I remember saying to him let me touch it and I touched his and it felt good. I stroked it a little and he took his turn I was instantly hard even so small as I was it felt so good... We both went to town after on our own while sitting next to each other until we came.... These games continued for a year or two every so often and I really liked them.
     
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    It was a very strange night in college (I was a late bloomer with sex). My friend and I went to a girl's dorm. There were a few more people there. She wanted to watch a porn that she had gotten. It was ultra cheesy and hilarious. It was the whole reason she did it in the first place. We ended up all going back to my friend and I's dorm, and for whatever reason we turned the lights off. She was laying next to me in one of the beds. At that time, I had no confidence, and I was anticipating that this was going to be another one of those nights where it ends with my desires unfulfilled. The fantasy was there in my head, though, and I got hard. As my frustration mounted, I all of sudden felt her hand go from my balls to the tip of my penis. She ran her hand up and down over my pants. I grabbed her hand, and ground it harder on my cock. We kissed, and then I asked her to put her mouth on it. She obliged, and it was a moment that I had been waiting for for a very long time. It was the best feeling I had had up to the point. However, for whatever reason I took too long to cum, and she had to leave. Her brother was keeping tabs on her for some reason, and she had to be back to her dorm at a specific time. I had really bad blue balls, but she made it up to me the next day.

    Since there were two other people in the room, I have no idea what they saw, but it was never mentioned from them after that day. It's a pretty good memory. :)
     
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    Earthquake. lol
     
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    It was with my girlfriend in my room at home we were hang out she start to touch my dick. It was so hot than she ask me did I want blowjob I said yes and she gave my first blowjob it was best night.