What too do?

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  1. timeless1

    timeless1 New Member

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    My gf has turned into a sexual freak?Are our cosy nights watching porn with coming back to haunt me?I dont mind a little crazy woman in bed anything goes but she is getting out of hand,do i tell her i want her to change an knock her confidence or do i keep my mouth shut and fight the pain????
     
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    Details!!!

    Be careful what you wish for here. An agressive woman is never a bad thing. If she really is making it painful for you, then you should maybe suggest a slightly different way of doing what she is attempting to do...
     
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    Ok here are some details firstly when im getting head she wants me to have sex with her face she doesnt want to be control she wants me to really ram it down her neck,secondly she slaps me everytime she comes:yell what do i do?
     
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    Hmmm..Tell her that you don't want to be slapped, or that you don't feel right pretty much raping her face. I dunno anything else to say. More details?
     
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    The thing is as we have watched porn together does she think this is what i want?
     
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    I will just allow her to do as she what she wants
     
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    You have to tell her what you are feeling. Don't just go along with things that make you unhappy.
     
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    I think your right dreama thanx
     
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    If you don't mind ramming her face like that -- then you should ask her if she really likes that or if she's doing it for you.

    Actually ask her that even if you don't like it.... or if you really do like it.

    Communication is the key! Tell her you enjoy her new kinky enthusiasm but that you need to talk about what each other's likes and dislikes are.
     
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    I have asked her if she really enjoys it or is she just doin it for me she told me she is doin it for herself as she likes to take control i think my problem is ive let this problem get to a point where its out of hand:uhh:
     
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    Sounds to me like you need to have a serious discussion with her then.
     
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    Hahaha...

    She sounds like me.....

    My husband? Tells me he dont like women who are dominant and rough in bed....


    silly boy...cos I know LOTS that would!!!!!!

    Tell her.....dont just put up with it for her......although she may need to be this way to feel fulfilled...

    good luck...:)
     
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    I have read a lot of complaints here,
    but truthfully you are sounding like Cowboy Lovers Husband
    Someone said "Be careful what you wish for" and
    truthfully you had better listen, My God Man a Woman that enjoys
    being Facefucked is a rarity to be treasured,
    Or is it that you have the opinion that only the Men are allowed
    to enjoy sex.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    Be careful

    It sounds like a passive/aggressive sort of vibe....

    the more passive you become the more aggressive she will behave...

    I cant help but notice that with the passage of time many women are becoming empowered, both sexually and otherwise. The problem therein lies when the man allows himself to feel disempowered....




    ?
     
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    Sounds like a mixture to me. tell you what: let her slap the hell out of you while you are doing it so that you get enough of that, then fuck the hell out of her face like she likes. That should get her wheels turning! Woo.... just got turned on thinking about that!
     
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    As not all women,
    not all men like rough sex.I think if what she is doing
    is causing you pain,you really need to talk to her.
    I don't agree with men doing that to a woman,so why is
    it different just because this is the other way around.
    Especally when she slaps you in the face.
    Has she always been like that or is it
    just since she has been watching porn
    Maybe like a lot of young people she thinks
    just because it's in the movies
    thats the way it's supposed to be done.
     
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    She could just be on an exploring streak. I mean I've gone through those, and you can get outta hand if someone doesnt stop you. Just let her know that you want to make love and that fucking her face really doesn't do it for you. chances are she doesnt really want you to choke her with your dick anyway, but everyone is pretty much right COMUNICCATE!
     
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    Be ready to get dumped or cheated on if you cant provide what makes her hot. You should think of pleasing your girl instead of acting like a wimp (no offense, just a friendly advise). If she likes to have her throat fucked, then fuck her throat; what's wrong with that? Again, i suggest you deal carefully with your "issue".
     
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    Enjoy!

    Or share her with me... :rockon
     
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    Weird old world, some people complain about things that others would give their right arms for, LOL.